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From Judith
I am a straight female who, after watching porn for a number of years, finds it predictable and boring. However, I do like to masturbate while watching my favorite DVD of a younger woman going solo. I try to do what she is doing and orgasm along with her. My guy will sometimes masturbate along with my on-screen playmate and I, but says he would rather just watch me. I think that's special.

From Emma T
As a woman, I really like gay male porn. Interestingly, what I don't like generally is heterosexual blow job scenes but I love watching male-on-male blow jobs. I think the aggression/animalism that is easily accommodated in gay male sex is just too unpleasant for me in typical heterosex porn.

From Kat
Ok I am a female and I watch porn by myself everyday, because my fiance will either not keep me fulfilled, or he just can't seem to have sexual relations at least once every two days. I masturbate to porn and think to myself the whole time I wish he were here instead. The only thing porn does for me from a females perspective is kill the need for that moment not for the moment when I actually do get some from him.

I really wish he would watch porn with me and maybe get some ideas from it, but I think that he gets the idea that a lot of females do about their men watching it that it weirds him out and he thinks that he is just not enough for me. In fact that is not the case I just need a little more passion and until I get it I will continue to watch porn in order to fulfill my sexual desires for him.

From Anonymous
This may seem rather simplistic, but I think the only reason men seem to like porn more than women is that they don't have very good imaginations. I kind of like some porn, certainly a nice change of pace sometimes, but when I'm in the mood for self-love, the porn in my head is simply way better than anything that exists anywhere else. Any combination of men, any location, all of them saying and doing exactly what I want. The only difference between that and porn is that mine requires a good enough imagination for the fantasy to seem real.

From Stacy
I'm much more into soft porn than the hard stuff (which is what my husband likes).  I think I'd get VERY hot if I were to watch two guys going at it...but my husband would freak out if I asked to rent a DVD like that.

I know what works for me is reading erotica...and again, when I read about two guys having sex, I get very very hot and bothered.

So for me, the bottom line is, let me read instead of watch.

From Nervicula
I'm a woman, and I've been in love with porn since I was 18 and saw "Emmanuelle" at a movie theater.  I'm in my 50's now, and have a closet full of sexy movies by professionals and amateurs alike. Porn is my de-stresser and my stimulator.

From Graham
My wife is very pretty, a lady who gives off vibrant sex appeal but no 'babe' having given birth to our two children but she got her figure back and has quite buxom boobs. She did some modelling at my photographic club, lingerie and stockings and was a big hit. Some of the work was published on our club's website (face not shown) and this resulted in her being invited to be an amateur model in a photo booth feature at an erotica show.

She enjoyed it and one evening had dinner with a guy who had just set up an amateur porn website, suggesting she would work very well with at least two of the guys who regularly featured on the site. She then met the two guys who suggested they set up a film session that evening at their hotel. My wife rang me urgently for some advice. I told her, if it was safe, 'go for it!' She did and really enjoyed it, totally relaxed in having two guys fucking her, she sucking them, while another guy filmed them.

The site is free so there was no fee but as my wife said she did it for the experience and the fun, not the dollars.

From Chocolategirl70
I love porn. I think women need to express themselves when it comes to this subject. We were taught that it is nasty and girls shouldn't do that. It was taboo for a woman to enjoy fellatio, but everyone is doing it. I enjoy seeing it because one day I plan to give head to my significant other. I think it is okay for a woman to be adventurous, we can surprise men.

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