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From Loved It
I am now middle aged and married.  As they say, back in the day, I tried several things trying to figure out my sexuality.  The thing that sticks in my mind most was the time a friend of mine and I were in my bedroom alone one afternoon after football practice.  We were rough housing as teenagers are prone to do when he ended up behind me and had his arms around me in a sort of wrestling hold.  From the hold on me his cock was pressed against my ass and I could tell that he was very hard.  Jokingly I asked him if he was planning to fuck me as hard as his cock was.  Initially he was kind of embarrassed, but when he let me go, I could see by the look on his face and the bulge in his pants that he was clearly turned on.  Up to that point I had no clue that I could be even remotely interested in anothers guy's junk.  Being young and curious, I reached out and grabbed his cock and balls through his jeans.  When he didn't pull away, I began to massage his cock.  Almost instantly, he told me that if I didn't stop, he was going to come in his pants.  I unzipped his pants and after some initial fumbling was able to get his cock out and hold it in my hand.  Unlike me, he was uncircumsized.  I am certain that was the first time I had seem another cock that was covered with foreskin.  When I pulled the skin back, his cockhead slowly emerged.  I guess it must have fascinated me, so I knelt down to get a better look. 

It took me no time at all to decide that I wanted that hooded dick in my mouth.  I told him to take his pants off if he wanted me to suck him off.  It took less than 5 seconds until he was standing there with his dick looking me straight in the eye.  I will never forget the sensation of taking him into my mouth.  The foreskin, even though he was erect, remained over his cockhead and even had a little loose skin for me to flick with my tongue.  When I would flick it he would moan slightly and roll his eyes.  I took his cock into my mouth and sucked it against the roof of my mouth.  Although I loved the sensation, since it was the first time I had ever had a dick in my mouth, all I could think about at first was, this jerk better not piss in my mouth.  Those thoughts quickly waned as I got into sucking him off.  His cock was so smooth and hard.  I'm certain I wasn't all that good at cock sucking, but he seemed to like it.  In a matter of a few minutes I could taste his precum.  Shortly thereafter I could feel him tense and his moans turned guttural.  Then his hands were cupping the back of my head as I took shot after shot of his cum into the back of my throat and swallowed him.  It was so hot.  I loved the feeling of having him in my mouth.  Even though I am married, I am certain I would love to suck another man's cock once again.  Hopefully, I will get the opportunity someday.

From Anonymous
I've only had one encounter with another man.  When I was in the Navy, I hooked up with a guy and he gave me a blowjob. He wanted me to return the favor, but I couldn't. To this day, I regret that I did not suck his cock. My latest fantasy is that my wife brings in a man with a huge cock. She directs the action as she forces me to lay back and get fucked like a woman. It makes me so hot to think of her telling him to fuck her husband like a little girl.

From Don
After reading all these great letters reminds of my youth. A friend of mine and I were camping out on the trail and after having something to eat we washed up in the river and dried off and sat around a very warm campfire. The discussion soon turned to sex and jacking off. I was feeling very horny as most boys do at this age(17)and one thing led to another and I asked him if he ever had sex with another boy. He said no but he does when his cock gets hard. I told him that I felt the same when my cock was hard. I told him I had seen his cock after we got out of the river and it made me want to see it more. He that he would like that.

I got up to tend to the fire and when I turned to sit back down he asked my if I would show him my cock again. I slowly unbuttoned my pants and lowered them slightly. Enough to expose my now erect cock. He reached over and felt how hard it was and soon was sucking on me like I never knew it could be. He sucked my cock until I could hold back no longer. I told him I was coming and he held me closer as I let my juices flow. It felt so go and much better than just jacking off. I returned the favor and sucked his nice cock until I felt him stiffen up and released his cum back in my throat.

We never did that again, but I think of it often and wish another opportunity would allow me to experience this pleasure again.

From Curt
This might be off subject a little but here goes. My wife is bi and I am straight. A few years ago she told me while we were making love that she fantasizes about me having other women while she watches. I was determined to try to make it happen for her, so the first time we hired an escort that she chose. We both were very turned on with the escort and after I had the escort, I told her to join us. Her fantasy was realized that night for the first time and she absolutely loved it. I switched back and forth from her to the escort and had them both at the same time. Since that night we have had these threesomes every few months. If she cant locate a girl to join us, we hire an escort. Most of the time its the same girl we had the first time because she is also bi. I love being married to a bi woman!

From Emma
I did not realize I was curious about other women.  I have always easily perceived a woman as attractive or not.  The same sex scenes in the porn I watch with my boyfriend always turned me on and his endless interest in breasts...well, I look at the pictures he pulls up.  I would like to explore an intimate situation with a woman, if the situation presented itself.

From Robert
I started having gay fantasies at the age of 27. It's not just a teen thing to explore one's thoughts. I'm really attracted to women - however, erect penises also excite me. Such feelings have been getting more frequent as time's worn on. Sometimes, I wake in the middle of the night imagining another man's penis inside me.

As other bi-curious people on here, I'm not entirely attracted to men (kissing, cuddling, etc), but the urge to explore anal/oral sex is certainly there. I'm ready to experiment now. A gay sauna sounds like the best place to start; plenty of naked male bodies, with the option to explore further if I become excited.

If anybody decides to do the same thing, make sure you practice safe sex. It's a sad thing, but some people out there really don't care for the welfare of others. I couldn't live with myself should somebody contract HIV or any other sexual disease!  

From Tim
I have never really had an attraction to men on a sexual basis. I do enjoy seeing other men naked and a nice cock, but haven't ever felt an attraction. It wasn't too long ago that I headed to the park to lay out and get some sun. I found a nice place next to some trees and spent the next hour enjoying the sun. I had taken various different tanning suits and after about a half hour, had changed out of my speedo into a thong I had brought. For the next half hour I kept my eyes open for other people and would roll on my back if someone came anywhere close to me. Then roll back on my stomach to tan my ass.

I was relaxing and I looked up and noticed that a guy had set up a chair above me on the hill and I wondered if I should roll over. But he had already seen my ass and didn't seem to mind so I just laid there for awhile. It wasn't long before he came down and started to talk to me and asked to join me. I didn't mind and so he set up his chair by me. He complimented me on my nice thong and said he enjoyed seeing someone willing to wear one. He also complimented me on being shaved and asked how much I shaved. For some reason, I didn't mind talking about this with him and told him I was totally bare. He also noticed my thong had some clasps on the side straps and I told him I liked to undo them to keep from getting tan lines. I undid one and opened the front a little showing off my smoothness and how easy it was to adjust the front part of the thong so it just barely covers my cock.

I noticed he was semi-hard sitting there talking to me and gazing at my package. I then rolled over on my stomach to get some more sun on my ass and one of the clasps came undone and I was going to fasten it and he told me it was fine if I left it undone. So I reached down and unfastened the other one and laid there with nothing on my bare ass. When I finally rolled over I noticed he was nice and hard with his cock barely contained in his shorts. He asked if I was interested in men and I told him no, but did enjoy seeing other cocks in the locker room. I finished laying out with the front pouch just barely covering my cock and the side strings unfastened. I finely had to leave and started to fasten things back up. He asked to see my smoothness and my cock before I left so I pulled off my thong so he could get a nice view and pulled my shorts on to walk to the car. I found it nice showing off my cock to him knowing it was making him hard, but still had no desire to do more than that.

From Joe P
I recently visited an adult store in New Jersey, it really didn't have much in the way of sex toys. So I got some tokens and went to the back to watch some videos, the booths didn't have any doors on them just a cloth curtain that I pulled shut. It wasn't long before I dropped my shorts to the floor and without wearing any underwear my cock was ready for my attention. My cock was rock hard in short order, it doesn't take much when watching a sex flick.

I was jerking myself off slowly just enjoying the feeling of being fully exposed while watching this big dicked guy fuck this girl in all available holes. When suddenly a guy comes in the booth I was in and drops to his knees and takes me in his mouth and starts sucking my cock like I've never been sucked before, no girl has ever sucked my cock that way. I tried to hold back as I wanted to enjoy what this stranger was doing to me, it wasn't long and before I was losing control and I emptied my balls into his willing mouth with an orgasm that made my whole body shudder and twitch with pleasure. I can honestly say I really enjoyed my first experience of sex with another man. 

From Anonymous
Back in college, my best friend and I picked up this German girl in a bar, and drove her back to our apartment.
We all 3 ended up naked in the sack, with one of the wildest nights I have ever had. At one point she was riding me, when Jake slid behind and entered her pussy at the same time. Hours before, I had never even seen Jake's dick, and then it was sliding against mine inside a wet pussy. We both came around the same time, mixing our cum in her pussy. We fucked her through the night, sometimes just one, sometimes both. One time I was fucking her while he rubbed her clit and I slipped out, and thrust into his hand. He fisted me and gave my a couple tugs, then put it back in her.

After that night, we hooked up a couple of times by ourselves when we were super horny and had struck out in the bars (we were always totally wasted). Only guy I ever messed with, but loved it. We are both married with kids now.

From Carla
I am a middle aged housewife who considers my self straight but truthfully have always felt incomplete in my sex life. I have always been strongly attracted to pretty women. I have always fought the urge but I recently met our new neighbor, a very attractive married woman and we have become fast friends. She is very flirty and I get the vibes that she wants more than just friendship. I have fantasies about her constantly and have had very strong urges to kiss her when she gives me a hug. I am totally excited that my fantasy might soon come true. I am falling for her like a rock!

From Ms. Curious
I am a 27 year old bi-curious female. I am very easily aroused and enjoy having sex. Lately, I haven't been responding to men the way I used to. I enjoy watching girl on girl porn. I am 5"4 with a nice frame and some really large tits with perky nipples. Every time I read your stories my pussy gets so wet.

My fantasy is to have a voluptuous woman suck my milky tits. The closest that I have gotten is my good friend Joyce. We both got drunk after a college party and we kissed. Joyce is overweight but I was the aggressor. I was drunk and I fondled her and was feeling up her huge crotch.

I am a very horny and I am looking for a nice, attractive young woman to experiment with. I hope I find her soon before my tits run out of milk. I have a lot to share :)

From Anonymous
I consider myself straight. I'm attracted to feminine qualities, not masculinity. That being said, having a guy who's very feminine, petite, and essentially girly service me sexually, turns me on greatly. This guy would have to be young. 18 to 29, not much body hair, and no sign of masculine muscle tone. A girly fem boy. When I'm around a extensively feminine girly boy, I feel the same way I do when I'm in the presence of an attractive female. I feel like an attractive male who is in need of some tension relief from a person having submissive feminine qualities.

I think about a girly boy who would want to please me the way a girl pleases a male. Please me orally, and to be overly eager to swallow my juice. I would want to penetrate him, listen to him moan like a girl while I dominate him. I'd love to be able to come inside. Unfortunately in reality, a condom would have to be used for anal. I have no interest in being dominated. No interest in performing orally on a male. I only play the role of the dominant male who wants to be pleased by someone very feminine.

From Anonymous
I attend the YMCA in my area, I have learned the Chinese men are hot.  I first discovered the life guard who was Chinese in the sauna, used to always come in naked and would get hard on, One day I reached out a grab it, it was about 6 inches, He made a face and seemed annoyed so I stopped, Next time he was in the sauna he stood in front of me with his hard dick in my face and said suck it. He's married with two children and his wife wont go down on him. I blow him once a week  and likes me to swallow, he always treats me bad and calls me names afterwards, but who cares, he's got a great cock and always give me a good load.I must add he has a great mushroom like head. I since learned and enjoy straight Asian men like getting blow jobs. I am always happy to help out. Asian men are hot!

From Anon
My same sex curiosity is all about pleasing a cock to completion, mostly with my mouth, but also with my hands. It's a submissive thing. I want to kneel down and take it into my mouth, eat all the cum. Or stroke it off into my mouth, or lay there while he jerks off on my face.

I fantasize about three guys at once. One in each hand and one in my mouth, and all of them coming on my face and in my mouth.The problem is STDs. Can't really eat cum safely. That sucks. I've tried chat rooms with guys who boss me around, but getting them to order me to come on my own face is difficult. I am not a sub in real life, but the fantasy is different.

From Jim
From the first time I saw a man's naked ass,  I thought I would blow a load in my pants.  There is just nothing like seeing an almost smooth ass and a hairy ass crack.  It's a beautiful sight to me.  My ultimate fantasy has always been to be fucked in my ass while a guy plays with my tits or my cock.  I've always dreamed about this,  and hope that one day it will come true.

From Paul
Like others I to would like to experience having sex with another man the only draw back is STD's. I really would like to wrap my lips around a nice size cock, and be able to watch him as I pleasure his member and tease his manhood with my tongue. I want to make him squirm with delight,as he tells me what really feels good.I want to fell his cock pulse in my mouth, just before he shoots his man creme into my wanting mouth. And to savor the flavor of his hot cock juice on my tongue.

I also want to experience another man taking me anally, I'm no stranger to anal sex as I have a variety of toys my wife pleasures me with. But the thought of another man entering my wanting willing ass really excites me. I want to know what it feels like to have a real cock sliding in and out my rear passage, and I would want it to be a cock of a larger size lets say nothing smaller than 8.5 inches and fairly thick.

I want to know could I feel his member pulse just before he empties his balls into my anal canal, and could I feel his warm cum fill my anal canal. And when he finishes have him lick the anal creme pie clean. I just wonder what all this would feel like? Maybe some day I will find out first hand.

From Anonymous
Would love to. I fantasize constantly about sucking a penis and getting a mouthful of cum which I would swallow gratefully. I'd also want a facial—maybe multiple guys over me.

From Caroline
I'm 36, married, three kids. I have often fantasized about other women: they've been nude, very sexy bodies, nice skin. I've woken up sweating and very, very ready for sex.

I really, really, really want to know if it's true that a woman can perform oral sex on another woman better than a man could. I don't believe I'll ever find out in my lifetime, but it doesn't stop a girl from dreaming.

I try to imagine myself going down on another girl, I think it would excite me a whole lot. It's also kind of scary, too, because what if she's not as clean as I would like, or what if she had a smell?

My husband watches porn occasionally, and the girl-girl scenes look hot to me. I want to try to kiss a girl one day.

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