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From Mary
Long dicks do not make make it for climatic sex, and certainly not pleasant sex. It's the thickness we girls want, fatter kicks longer anytime. Long dicks just bang the hell out our insides; thick dicks feel good, lots of friction on all the good spots. And, if it's too thick, lots of foreplay and lube will fix the problem. But too long, there's simply no fix, it's just uncomfortable.

Guys with 6 inches of fat dick rule!

From Sandi
Not just length, it's also about girth.  Hubby is a regular 6 inches unless we get very passionate, down and dirty, then he can go to a good 9 inches.  But he's thin as a pencil.  A few years ago we had a threesome with one of our friends. It was his girth that did it for me.  Hubby watched us, said my first orgasm was 10 seconds in.  A little later, after we had all rested, we went again. This time our friend took my anus but it was just too much.  Too painful to continue, he had to exit. 

From Roy 1948
Obviously both are important.  I'm average size but of course I wish I was larger.  I'm bisexual so in terms of my relations with other men, I'm an oral submissive, I much prefer that my partner have a big cock.  I like them long and thick, I love the feel of them sliding in and out of my mouth and going into my throat.  I also like them to have nicely shaped cock heads, love to spend a lot of time licking and sucking on especially nice cock heads, it's definitely delightful.

From Allan
My cock is 5 inches long and 5 inches around.  I get a nice rock hard erection that points straight up.  My ex-wife liked my cock and never complained about the size.  When I am soft, my cock can be very small, varying from 2 1/2 inches to smaller.  I  have never had a complaint from a woman.  And, I am able to attract a lot of women.

From Mike
Honestly who cares? Women are never satisfied. I have been a swinger for 6 years and have seen all shapes and sizes. I am 6 inches long and 6 inches thick. When aroused I can become 7inches long. I have had sex with women right after an 11inch penis has been in them. I know what I'm doing and keep sex interesting that's what keeps them coming back. The case tends to be the bigger the chick like the cock, the fatter her waistline is. Stop giving a shit about what a women thinks. Fuck them right and they always come back.

From Lars
This is a very interesting and important topic and I am glad to hear all the women saying the truth, even though its their own truth. There are some men lucky enough to be having a large penis. I belong to those guys that are below average, my penis is just under 5 inches and I do admit that I have always been envy on guys who has a large penis.

Both men and women are making fun of men who has a small penis, I don't think it's by intention to hurt guys like me, but it does, I really wish I had a large penis, but I do accept that it's small. I have had women that have been honest about it and left me because of it too. I also know that I have never been able to satisfy a women sexually through intercourse. These are facts to me, I don't wont women to say size doesn't matter, just to make me feel better, if they enjoy it, then they should go for it. I am sure I would if I was one of them. I am single and I am sure that my lack of size is one of the reasons. I am sure there are  women out there that would be ok with my size, I just have to find her.

So does size matters, yes it does to most women and foreplay too.

From K
A big dick is a must for me. I love to feel "filled" up in both my kitty, mouth and ass (occasionally). My current boyfriend is about 8 1/2 inches with nice girth and a curve. Anyone can learn foreplay, but you can't learn having a big cock.

From Lady Love
It's holding, caressing, and sensual kissing that tickles the clit and starts the vagina flowing with love juice. A man has to have passion for sex with his partner, he's got to want to absorb her into his mouth with oral sex. He's got to make love to her clit. He's got to want his nipples sucked as much as she wants him to suck hers.

A man has to want to give lovemaking the time it deserves. The woman, in turn, has to want everything he has to offer, and look forward to taking any part of his body into her orifices. Believe me, if a man leaves a woman feeling sexy, satisfied and loved, she'll love his cock just based on his ability to please her.

For me, the goal is to fit my man's cock like a glove, no man can resist a tight pussy, so girls, do your kegel exercises. Do not masturbate with anything larger than your man's dick, or you will stretch out. Allow your man to feel your vagina tighten up on his cock, while he's inside you, he will respond back with some great contractions of his own. And there's nothing like falling asleep staying connected. Slow down and love each other. Good Luck! 

From Veronica
Honestly, I never thought much about it until a girl friend told me about how her well endowed lover was pleasing her. I'm a 48 y.o. widow of 5 years and got back into the dating game about 3 years ago. I have 3 kids and I noticed that after the last one that intercourse wasn't as intense as in the early years, though even then I never was able to achieve orgasm from intercourse.

Boy what a difference with my current boyfriend/lover. He is very well endowed, about 8in. long and 5 and a half around. ( yes we measured ). When I first saw his erect penis it was very exciting and such a turn on to handle and suck it, though I can't begin to get all of it in my mouth.

Intercourse is a new exciting experience. As other women have said, there's no substitute for that "full feeling", the friction and stretching that I now get. His thickness is stimulating my clit and the extra friction is apparently rubbing my G spot, or whatever is happening. I also love the pulsing feeling at the back of my vagina. I'm now experiencing multiple orgasms from intercourse, and some incredible final ones. Of course it doesn't hurt that he's a handsome, well built guy and very romantic too. Also, and very important, he is very patient, always waiting until I'm very wet and ready ( It doesn't take long! ). We also use lube.

I've read that a minority of women experience intercourse orgasms. I wonder if they're the ones with well endowed lovers?

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