Big Dicks vs Competent Foreplay

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From Kay
I saw the message from 2small who has ended up with a distorted sense of the importance of penis size. [see 2small's entry below] His size with adequate foreplay and in a relationship where as people really click isn't a problem. And no, women wouldn't swap their current boyfriend presuming he's a valued boyfriend for another guy with a bigger dick.

The only area a dick can be too small is when the situation is much like a one night stand, having sex too soon before there is time to have known each other as real friends and develop an attraction. Recent research has shown for one night stands women are fussier regarding physical appearance hence the attributes presented, than for partner.

So use your brain & wit, lighten up and defiantly dump your bitterness & insulting simplistic notions about women - be grateful you're not gay as men are far less forgiving about dick size in men. Plus make sure you have great foreplay skills, from intense lively ones as well as the leisurely slower sensually based skills & stay very in tune to what is working and open to what an individual woman gets off on.  A big dick without the mouth, hands, sensitivity with skill, engaging the mind & feelings isn't enough on it's own repeatedly.

You're supposed deficit could potentially lead you to developing the basis of a better love life than many other men. It's up to you,  getting what you are prepared to work on.

From 2Small
Honestly, I think the women who say that a guy doesn't have to be huge are just trying to be politically correct and not hurt our feelings. I am 5.75 inches which I thought was average, or close to it. The first time I "almost" had sex, my girlfriend at the time told me upon seeing my member, that I was the smallest she had ever seen before and she didn't think it would be a good idea to go any further because I would end up being hurt more when she broke up with me, which she did the next day through a friend. So my first experience was really embarrassing to say the least, and it took me a long time to even approach another girl.

The next girl I met at a party my best friend was throwing at his apartment. Things were getting a little hot and heavy in the laundry room and we started getting undressed and as soon as my boxers came down, she said that she just had a really sharp pain in her forehead and that she was getting a bad migraine. She bolted out of the laundry room and I started getting dressed, as I was buckling my belt the door swung open and there she stood with 2 other girls and their boyfriends and one of the guys said "Hey I hear you have a baby dick?" I turned red, pushed past them and left. That was the last time I ever attempted to talk to a girl.

I get offers every now and then from girls who want to go out with me or hang out but I usually act like I'm not interested because I know if we ever became intimate the same thing would happen.

So all you ladies out there who say it doesn't matter what size a guy is, just stop. I know better, I know women who get beat up by their boyfriends and they stay with them because "Even though he can be a jerk he is hung like a horse and the sex is awesome". OK whatever, nice black eye you got there.

And guys, stop asking questions you already know the answers too like, "if you had the choice between your current boyfriend, and a guy who looked and had the same personality as your boyfriend, only he had a much bigger cock, who would you choose?" Only a moron would think the girl would keep her current boyfriend.

In our world bigger is better in every realm except electronics. Those of us who are 6 inches and under have to deal with the fact that we may never have a relationship, and if we do, we have to accept the fact that our partners will cheat with every swinging dick over 6 inches that happens their way. Sad but true.

From Elizabeth
I've only had two guys that I've been with and I haven't seen many guys with their stuff down there. The one guy had average sized penis but it was pretty thick. My guy I just saw his and it's smaller and not as thick.

He's also a bigger guy too, but he is soooo good with foreplay. He just loves it, he loves getting the girl off first and playing around with them. The foreplay is the best I've had, which I haven't been with that many guys, but still. For me, I personally like going down on guys and having my mouth completely filled... so I found that was harder. I do like the ability to do more to a guy with a smaller one because I can take it in my mouth and basically do anything and everything with it.

I think a smaller one may not be a problem... even in the penetration thing because I don't want it to hurt and can't take too much. And the foreplay is amazing, so I think it'd be more of an issue with a selfish guy who doesn't want to go through the routine of getting you excited before getting you off. That's at least what I think.

From Jerry
I'd like how deep your vaginas are of you women who claim you can take a Long penis. I mean do you out there who say they only like big long ones, how deep are you -- 9", 10" or more inside? Some of you small women, that would put your vagina and uterus up where the liver is. I work with a 12" ruler all the time and I just can't see you put it all the way up in your pussy.

As for me I always hit the cervix, and I have been with a lot of women. My current wife says I'm too big and it hurts her. I can't have sex with her for a week after. I'm a little bigger than average but not that big. And people are average for a reason, big or small are aberrations. I know a lot of women complain about really big dicks hurting. So when I see a woman who can take 10 or 12" real inches all the way up her vagina I'll believe it then.

From Alabaster
I want foreplay.  I don't care how big you are, your size alone is not going to make me beg for your cock.  However, your skill in using your MIND (the most erotic organ), hands, mouth, and afore mentioned cock should make me beg :)

I do have certain preferences though.  For length, I prefer an "average" man (5.5 - 6.5 inches).  If his cock is much longer than that it bottoms out and becomes uncomfortable or even downright painful when he presses deep.  Also, that length seems to hit my G-spot just right.  For width, I like 2-3 inches in diameter (5-6 inches circ).  My pussy is tight and becomes increasingly tighter the more aroused I get so anything thicker, even with copious lube, is uncomfortable for me.  My ass is even tighter so I definitely don't want anything bigger in there!

Also, I'm BBW and I most certainly DO NOT agree with some other posters who equate a larger size lady with a larger pussy.  Women are just as diverse in size as you men!

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