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From Anne
Once I discovered how to control my vaginal muscles through kegel exercises, size is no longer important to me. Now I can have that filled to the brim feeling with any size penis, especially less than average men. I can squeeze my vaginal walls (muscles) around his penis and experience that filled up feeling.

My best friend explained the kegel thing to me after I was complaining about the small size of my boyfriend (approx 3-4 inches). Boy did things change when I learned how to control my vaginal muscles. My boyfriend noticed a difference too...he said I felt tighter. It's more of you adjusting and clamping your vaginal muscles around his penis versus a big penis expanding you. Let me tell you, it makes a big difference!

I don't understand why more women don't know about this. Granted it took me a short time to gain the control I have now. But the exercises are easy and I now have much stronger orgasms.

From Olio
Truth is that it is all in the mind. So, all you girls that say "bigger and fatter" as choice, and that all as 1st choice out of everything, is very bad way to replace and hide emptiness or guilt in your personality. It is all in the mind. Nerve system responsible for penetration detection is located 2" from vaginal hole. Maybe nature did something wrong and place them at 12" distance for some :) .

I know a woman who left her husband and 2 children for somebody else because because he was big and fat down there. After a while same woman sad to me that he didn't treat her well and he was cheating on her. So, I guess you get some and lose some. You decide what you want and what is important. Because the end of the street is same in most of the cases.

And another thing, laughing at somebody for what he is, what he has or how he looks overall or down there is not acceptable. Probably those who do this can very easy grant their personal photo placed next to description "empty head chicken" in the dictionary. What goes around comes around.

At the bottom, I believe that if you love somebody and he/she loves you back, that no problem can't be solved even if it is sexual thing. For the record, I'm 7". Big dicks for big girls, and for slim girls...? :)

Thanks to all girls in this forum who shared their thoughts and stands on all subjects. Luv u all. Be happy :)

From Black Girl
I have had the opportunity to have been mounted by both Black and White men. Until recently, I too thought that men of color could be counted on for poppin' the most in terms of size (being hung and all). Then I got a wake up call. The men that are endowed with the huge ram rods usually deliver a lot of pain, not pleasure. 

Well, one night while on a 3rd date with a tall, strong, dark man of color, things got hot and heavy and to the point of our clothes coming off. As I began to feel all over his beautiful warm black body, I just had to reach down to grab hold of his manhood. I just could not wait to explore every inch of it! What a shock! The brotha was packin' about 4 inches at the most. I caught myself before blurting out, "Where is the other half, baby?" My jets were cooled big time, but we continued on to the point of having sex.

Ladies, that was THE BESTEST pounding ever! A joy stick of that size hits your g-spot with every thrust. Getting laid by Mr. Donkey Dong himself just promises you a banged up'd uterus and and a coochie that looks like it has been turned inside out! So, does a mans race make a difference? no! Does size matter? Yes! For myself, smaller is sooo much better. I can't get enough of that humble sized wien wien! And by the way folks, equal opportunity is the way to go. I love all flavors of men. I am so happy to be a woman!

For small tooled men out there, just add some soul to your push and pull along with a slight roll to them hips of yours and your woman will hit a high note like Minnie Riperton. No Lie.

From Liz
Six months ago I would have answered quickly that foreplay was definitely most critical for me.  I've had sex with a variety of sizes - some too big for certain positions, some too small for certain positions.  In any case, the foreplay was always critical and there was no sense that a bigger cock could replace this element.  I married a man of reasonable size but extraordinary talent.

After being married for several years however, and getting hornier every day, I had a surprising experience as I cheated for the first time last fall.  I had been getting close to a friend and we finally crossed the line and started kissing, and he kept saying how that we wouldn't be able to stop if we started making out.  In that moment, I thought, no way - I'm not having sex with you - I can definitely stop.  Then as we rubbed against each other, he pulled out the hugest dick I had ever seen.  And I WANTED it.  I had him inside me in seconds, and it was unbelievable.  And we've continued to have sex for months - never with any foreplay to speak of.  For a cock that size, now (this was different when I was younger), just knowing that it's there enough to drive me wild instantly.

From Kathy
Well guys, a woman that has a tiny pussy rather have a normal size cock in her that's thick but not a monster. I know I prefer that. Monster cocks aren't always the best. Tiny woman that play with too big of a cock gets kidney infections because of the irritation from the monster. So men, big cocks aren't for every woman.

From Anonymous
Well I suppose it depends....I'm just at 5 inches and my girlfriend hounds for my dick. Every girl I've been with has been happy with my size so I don't believe it really matters I just think that it is pushed in their head that it should matter.

From Murray
My wife has always maintained my paltry 6 inches was not a problem for her, she saying it was 'quality not quantity' important to her.  Then, at Christmas, we finally swung with an old friend of ours.  Divorced last summer, he has been a welcome guest at our house for many weekends and I've enjoyed the blatant flirting he and my wife have been indulging in, he being a very good looking guy, in his 50's like us, very sprightly and amusing. 

What we didn't know of course was how well endowed he was.  He had taken a Viagra type pill but his size was breathtaking, we guessed he was a good 10 inches.  Apart from some very passionate kissing there was very little foreplay before my wife wrapped her legs around our friend's hips and got his 10 inches real deep inside her.  Her shouts and moans of ecstasy was enough to tell me this was a totally new experience for her.  When he climaxed he didn't, of course, go limp but remained big and long and when she offered her anus he didn't hold back. 

So the evening progressed and around midnight I finally went off to our bedroom for some sleep.  Waking up at 6 in the morning,  I wasn't surprised to find my wife in bed with our friend.  For my wife her mantra is now quantity, not quality.

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