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From M8
Ok I enjoyed this site, the stories are great, but I thought a man who likes his nipples played with was maybe gay or bi. I had a ex boyfriend who every time we had sex in the doggy style position he would rub on his nipples, I found it to be odd, but now that I've read this site, I guess not. He loved it, so I started to do it for him, it really aroused him.

From Anonymous
Some of the earlier posts seem to suggest that every man's nipples are sensitive, and that they only need to "tune into" them. Let's not fall prey to the False Consensus Effect (the assumption that everyone's situation matches our own).

As a psychologist, I can tell you that the research reflects that about 15% of men have what they report as "somewhat" or "extremely" sensitive nipples.

Other research suggests that this is due to prenatal hormone exposure. The more masculinizing hormones the infant is exposed to, the less sensitive his upper body becomes. This includes the nipples, the nape of the neck, and to some degree, the lips and eyes. Women, having been exposed to extremely low levels prenatally, have extreme sensitivity in these areas about 80-90% of the time.

No correlation with sexual orientation or masculinity in behavior has been reported, however.

From Jim
I have a masochistic streak in me and the most important part is nipple torture.  I am a gay man, 35 years old, in pretty good shape, I have well developed pecs and nipples that stand out more than half an inch. When I was 18, I had then pierced for 6 gauge stainless steel rings in each, The actual piercing was very painful and took a few months to heal, but the pain almost made me shoot a load in my panties.  That's how I discovered how erotic tit torture can be.  Now when I sexually service another man, nipple torture must be part of it.

From D. L.
I have always been aware of my sexual arousal factor of engaging in nipple play from an early age. I do not feel uncomfortable in asking my lover to suck and bite my nipples during our lovemaking. There are times when I masturbate in front of her and have her squeeze and massage my breasts and nipples while I flex my muscles in her hands until I come. 

The pleasure is so intense I can't describe it.  It's out of this world.  When I masturbate alone, I use the edge of my men's magazine as stimulus to rub across my nipples getting them really erect, with that in play and fantasizing about the beautiful women on the pages, my orgasms are really pleasurable.

From Jef
Thank You. My nipples control my sex; once my partner touches my nipples my sex is controlled by my partner. I'm a bit afraid of them being bitten off though

From Dave
What a great response to this topic...I have sensitive nipples, one more than the other and love them being licked, bitten and stroked. Ear lobes are also included - they can't be hard wired too can they? 

From Gary
I am a 67 year old bi male and nipple play is a must whether having sex with a man or a woman. After using snake bite kits on my nipples for a couple years, I was recently introduced to Supple Nipps and they are great. They come in different sizes so one for everyone. Anyone interested should check out Supple Nipps at Adult DVDV Empire.

From Mhenton
I LOVE NIPPLE PLAY---I discovered this when I was 11 and my sensitive nipples caused my fist erection and masturbation! I have always wanted nipple play, the older the more. It is great--I get off with nothing but nipple stimulation---I would love to chat with other people who have the same interest.

[Mhenton, Adult Chat Rooms might be a good place to try. Pick a room by geographic region or by topic of interest. There's always chatters 24/7, a fun place.]

From Anonymous
I love for my lover to kiss, lick, suck...anything else she might dream up. Sometimes when she sucks them she says there is a kind of spicy taste.  Just wonder if anyone else could make a comment on this topic?

Froom LKJ
From time to time I see references to nipple orgasm. I find the idea bewildering. I frequently feel extraordinarily good from nipple play.  It's far better than ejaculation... far better than anything I can honestly call an orgasm.  And I can play for long periods of time.  But is it an orgasm?  I can't really use that term.

I'm wondering whether there are still greater pleasures to experience, or whether my experience is typical.  It's a mystery.

From Illusion
My beautiful lover was immensely relieved to discover that he was not alone in his particular delectation when he found this site and thread some years back, and he first introduced me to the thread just over three years ago. Since then I have visited many times, learning more on each visit. I have never posted anything before, but I felt that the time was now right to share my thoughts with you, and with him.

My lovers nipples are so sensitive and so central to his arousal that he will sometimes prefer me to kiss and caress them rather than anything else. When we have plenty of time I can help him reach what he calls his girlie orgasms. These are multiple orgasms deep within him, and very different from his male orgasms. They are a very special gift that I absolutely love to give him. What makes the experience even more special for me is that the most erogenous parts of my own body, besides the obvious female ones, are my hands and fingers.

I don't mean that touch for me is just pleasant. Caressing his nipples with my fingertips, and with the palms of my hands, is deeply erotic, sending waves of what feels like electricity through my hands, up my arms and flooding every part of my body and my mind. Watching and hearing my lovers intense pleasure whilst feeling my own through my hands brings an incredible sense of connection during our love-making, which is totally addictive.

Sometimes my desire to reach beneath his shirt and to kiss and caress his nipples when in company, or in a public place, is almost overwhelming, and I have to fight very hard to control my actions, particularly after a glass of wine or two.

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