Is Phone Sex Cheating?

I wonder what other people think about phone sex. If you participate in phone sex with someone other than your spouse, are you cheating?  —Jacqui 

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From Goddess Josephine
I am a phone sex operator. I think that phone sex is a great outlet to explore fantasies you're not yet ready to explore in your relationship. Sometimes your imagination can take you places you probably should go or you explore them and realize it's not really your cup of tea.

Phone sex is safe and private. You can also get great ideas to use with your SO.

From John
I am a recent widower and my late wife and I participated in phone sex as a extra stimulant to our love life. It was like having a threesome without opening our lives to a stranger, and much healthier in this day and age.

Since her death I use phone sex for a sexual release and I enjoy the roll playing that can be done without hurting anyone. I am 60 years old

From Anonymous
The first time I had phone sex, I was in high school on Christmas vacation. It was with my best friend who happened to be the girl of my dreams. I'm a virgin still and was then. It started out as she had just broken up with her boyfriend two days before, and being her best friend, I was consoling her, but at the same time showing her how great of a guy I was. (little did I know she had a crush on me also.)

So after she told me it was over,.we were texting like we always did and she sent me a text saying she had just fingered herself and though about me...I though it might of been her friend who was always a bitch to me and pulling this kinda crap to be mean. She said it was her and I wrote back saying prove it. Nothing goes after ten minutes so I figure it was a joke. Then I get a picture message. I open it and I see her standing in front of her mirror topless, and I got very nervous and was thinking holy shit...this is really happening.

I call her and we talk for a bit. Then I ask if she wants to have phone sex, she eagerly agrees, I ask for another pic and she sends me one of her pussy....god it was nice. So I'm really nervous and have no experience whatsoever in this stuff so I ask her to go first. She does and soon she's moaning into the phone as I tell her what I want to do to her. I tell her all my secret fantasies and she tells me hers. This goes on for a half hour then the phone ends, she FELL ASLEEP!

We try it a couple more times over vacation, but then one day she tells me we can't be friends anymore. That really hurt. When we got back school, we talk things out and she tells me that she had been drunk that first time over the pain of her recent break up. Although months later when we skipped our first class together, she told me that she had lied to keep it a secret, which I understand, and she told me this, she really liked me.

There's a lot more information I haven't told you but I don't want to get into that. Lets say I'm going into my senior year with one less best friend again. I loved her and miss her.

From Tony
It sounds like you and hubby are having a communication problem, or he's a thick-headed clot, or you are trying to justifying a phone sex relationship. [see Questionable's entry below]

Sit hubby down, talk with him in a non-threatening way and tell him you need more stimulation, and then show him exactly what turns you on. Get a vibrator, get some lub and for heaven sakes, tell him when you're too dry or not ready. How is he suppose to know what you're feeling without talking to him - which is basically what you're doing with a stranger.

I thought I was doing just fine sexually until my wife sat me down and told me she loved me, but thought our sex life suffered because I wasn't paying attention to her reactions to my lovemaking. It was a real eye-opener for me. And, to be fair, I had a few issues with her lovemaking also.

Bottom line? Talk with your husband, write him a letter (or email) if that's more comfortable for you. Or discuss it on the phone. If he doesn't change or want to change, than by all means enjoy phone sex and stop feeling guilty about it. Life is too short to be frustrated.

From Questionable
After 6 years of a wonderful near perfect relationship I finally did something terrible. I had phone sex with some random person I met on the internet. My relationship is rock solid and we are perfect for each other. The only huge issue is that I enjoy sex and crave some type of stimulation.

What I currently have in my relationship lasts less than a minute and there are times when he gives me no time to "prepare" and become wet so much so that it hurts and he has been known to make me bleed. I have tried VERY hard over the last two years....sexy lingerie, being honest, buying toys, and many things. Any ideas for alternatives to breaking off a sexually cold relationship or improving it? In your opinion have I cheated?

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