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From Elizabeth B
My sex life of late is almost non-existent, so I masturbate frequently. The quickest, easiest way for me to get off is to rub my clit while fantasizing...and my biggest orgasms are when I fantasize about being forced to have anal sex. I can think of my lover, a beautiful, sensuous woman, and it turns me on, makes me dripping wet, and in the long run, I will come. But when I think about a long black dick pumping me from behind, I am on my way in seconds. And when that black cock is slipped from my wet pussy and shoved roughly into my ass, the ground starts to move like never before!

I think about my ass cheeks being pulled open, that cock forcing it's way into my tight hole. I see myself on my hands and knees, being pumped mercilessly by a large black man...my head being pushed into the pillow at just the right angle to look into the mirror. I watch him slamming himself into me, I see his black rod pistoning in and out of my ass. He taunts me, telling me that every time my girlfriend touches my ass, I'll think about him riding me, and tells me I'll never be satisfied with her fingers or tongue again. He calls me his bitch, slams himself into me roughly, then pulls his cock out of my gaping ass and shoves it into my mouth. I frantically rub my pussy, pressing hard on my clit, and I come just as I picture his cock exploding, his thick white cum splashing down my throat.

From Miss B
Force fantasies are just that--fantasies. They are not tales of rape. Rape is an act of violence against an unwilling partner, male or female. Force fantasies are acts of the mind, not a physical manifestation of the act. The mind that creates them does so within boundaries. It follows a desired script, to a desired ending.

I myself have several force fantasies. They fit the typical stereotype of one or more large men making me do things I'm not sure I want to do. Of course in my fantasies, the element of desire inside me wins out, and I enjoy being taken in such a way, and orgasm because of it. This is fantasy in so many ways. One, I would not really want to be in such a situation--I would be afraid to be with more than one person at a time, it would be too easy to be overpowered. Two, I am not averse to having sex with large black men--I do so regularly, and am not scared at all. The thing is, it feeds into society's taboos.

Anything that is "forbidden" always seems a bit more exciting. I am currently building a relationship with another woman, something I have never done before, and have not had sex with a man in almost a year. I find that my fantasies about men have increased, especially those involving force. This does not change the way I feel about my female lover. I do not fantasize this way when I am with her. She is gentle, loving, and very feminine. My mind gets to play in this other playground when I have my own time, and I have many powerful orgasms just thinking about having a big black cock shoved forcefully into my ass. Fantasies, even force fantasies, are my mind's healthy way of letting my body explore itself

From Kev
Having read the discussions I feel I must respond. Both my girlfriend & I developed our own forced fantasy role play from an unexpected scenario. At a car boot sale a batch of summer dresses were being cleared at £2 each. I harmlessly remarked "let me buy a couple of extra ones, maybe I could rip one off you" my girlfriends reaction was ecstatic & her eyes clearly lit up! She couldn't return home fast enough & in the safe confines of my bedroom she put on one of the summer dresses & laid herself down on her back on my bed.

She waited obediently & with much anticipation as my hands roamed freely over her dress. When I took a firm hold of the top of her dress her eyes were ablaze with lust as I announced I was going to rip her dress open. I pulled her dress wide apart scattering the buttons in all directions and it felt I was viewing her breasts for the very first time! I continued to tear her dress & we had the most frenzied mutual sex we had enjoyed in a long time...a realized fantasy for us both treated with mutual respect.

From Carol
I apparently have a whole slew of "inappropriate fantasies!" And that little bit of recently-acquired judgmentia is not going to stop me having them, either.

From Jessica
This is one of my biggest fantasies, to be taken against my will over an office desk. The office is always the domain of my fantasies.

From David
While growing up, I would occasionally find myself having fantasies of rape or forced sexuality, both acting and receiving. These threads have persisted as part of a larger pantheon of fantasies through the years and it is only recently that I have come to an acceptance of them. Almost anything can be made into an arousing fantasy with the right crafting and I'm not about to allow a story to send me into the streets on a mad raping spree. I think foreced fantasies are obviously one of the most difficult to admit to having let alone sharing - they require a certain amount of maturity and honesty from the reader too.

From Jean
In the 60's, when my hormones first kicked in, public discourse on sex was crude and confusing by current standards. All the adults in my life warned me that all males were sexually aggressive and would 'take advantage' of me if they could. I was expected to be a Nice Girl who couldn't really understand lust, let alone experience it. I knew this to be hooey, but the sight of pregnant classmates (some as young as 13) freaked me out - and that was the one thing I really didn't want. Birth control was not a topic that could be openly discussed.

The message I got was that sex is very harmful to girls/women because it messes up their lives. Men are evil by nature because they are all born with an impulse to do this awful thing to us. (Note that this message did NOT come from feminists.) Females who actually want it, even a little bit or some of the time, are self-destructive masochists who are their own worst enemies, and not typical. Females who want it with other females really don't exist. Males who want it with other males do exist, but they are very, very sick and should be allowed to run around loose.

When all 'normal' (heterosexual) sex was assumed to involve at least some degree of force on one side and masochism on the other, this meant that rape (as it was known) wasn't really seen as different from 'sex' and to further complicate this whole topic, none of this could be discussed 'at the dinner table.'

So fantasizing about 'sex' necessarily involved fantasizing about something which, if not exactly Rape, came very close. These fantasies even carried some disturbing implications: if my very own feelings were an accomplice of every rapist who might turn his attention to me, did I also secretly want to be forced to do other things, i.e.: become a life-long slave of a dominating man? Or even a murder victim? My gut-level response to this question was Absolutely Not, since I really believed I wanted a life of my own. But if I really wanted 'rape' (sex), how could I be sure what I really, really wanted and what I really, really didn't?

I suspect that most women of my generation have spent most of our lives trying to answer this question. By now, those involved in the anti-rape or anti-assault movement have been trying to define these things for roughly 30 years, and the definitions are still open to debate.

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