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From Baron
I have been using cock rings for years. Have all types, Chrome steel, leather, rubber. Leather and metal harness types. All in various sizes. Have found each type gives me a bit different sensation. I do not wear them all the time, just for sex, or showing off at a nude "place."

My fav. at a nude place is the Leather harness type around the base of of my cock and balls with a short strap that hold one or two metal cock rings tightly at the base of my shaft. The harness looks and feels great, makes my cock and balls stick out greatly. I also now have a smaller tight ring just behind the cock head.

From Boner
I like to wear a cock ring because it applies pressure to and causes my cock to get and stay real hard. I wear a cock ring which is made from leather and it has metal spikes attached and it looks really hot. They are easy to put on because they have metal snaps.

From Anonymous
I wear a Metal Cock Ring and I love it. I am wearing it right now in a coffee shop. It makes me aware of my junk 24/7. I can usually wear it all weekend, during the week it is too distracting. Keeps me horny from Friday to Monday though. Cheers all.

From Rich Skinner
I am 45 and have been using rings since I was 12 and started jacking off. I have probably 20 different ones and all are made of metal. I always use the ones that your whole package goes through, and not all the time use one or more on the shaft. I also have a couple that are connected with a 3rd ring splitting my ball sack.

I have never had a complaint from any woman I have used them with and can tell you that my wood is just as good as it was when I was younger, I just can't come as many times, and the rings make it easier for me to prolong my pleasure. I have learned that stopping for a few minutes then resuming is not a problem since the ring keeps me hard. It is not unusual for my partner and I to make love for 2 hours or more with me only coming once. They do make your cock bigger and more sensitive too. I can wear them all the time and have worn them for days at a time.

Be careful not to wear too small of one if you wear the one your whole package goes through, last summer my girl and I were having fun in the country, the ring was a little too small and I wound up riding home naked with a huge hard on that took forever to go down, but it was big and hard!

From Dave
I've used a variety of cock rings for years. The pressure they create heightens my orgasms. Lately I've come to prefer a simple adjustable leather strap around my cock and balls. Masturbation is more intense and my wife likes to have the strap hit her clit during intercourse. The extra pressure on my balls makes it fantastic. 

For safety sake, I loosen it frequently to let some blood circulate. With some lube and a little common sense I can maintain an erection for several hours. The resulting orgasm is more like an explosion.

From Adam
The first one I ever had was thin and adjustable, it was sorta like one of those weird neckties that don't actually get tied but instead have a buckle or something clamped on it. Anyway, I liked the results but didn't really dig the the hair tugging that resulted from the contraption, lube did help but just a little.

It didn't take too long for me to figure out that the problem wasn't the ring. The problem was the hair. Once that was gone so was the discomfort. I got a lot of use out of that one for a while but have since discovered that I prefer having 'at least' one much thicker ring positioned behind the sack accompanied by smaller choker up front. 

The question of whether damage could result from wearing a ring for too long is one worth asking. I'm not sure about the risks to the reproductive system. But from a vascular point of view, it is my understanding that cells will eventually die if they do not receive enough O2. Fortunately the arteries which deliver the O2 rich blood to those cells are not as close to the skin or as pliable as are the veins which carry away the de-oxygenated blood. The veins are being restricted by the ring while the arteries continue to allow blood to build pressure thus resulting in the "Cockring Effect". Blah blah blah...

My guess is that extreme restriction could possibly result in a loss of a little sensitivity. But, because the typical cockring is essentially just an amplifier to the natural, more familiar, "Boner Effect", which doesn't seem to bother my penis one bit. This is not a common problem.

From Dominic
I have been using cockrings regularly for the last 10 years after being introduced to them as a surprise by my girlfriend at the time. She bought the rubber o-ring type and had 'manually sized me' while I thought I was just having a good time ! The point is, size is very important. They work by restricting blood flow out of the erect penis, which is why your dick gets engorged, remember put them on while soft, get hard and hey presto, you've gone up a dress size ! Experiment with size till it feels snug but not uncomfortable. 

Over the years have tried, rubber, metal, the tourniquet style, leather adjustable with standard metals studs (SAX fetish - one of the best manufacturers around) and other flexible types with ball separators etc. Have been able to wear all the flexible (ie rubber or leather) for up to 8 hrs without damage (stress correct sizing here again). Metals are unforgiving with all that soft tissue to pinch against and the more heavy BDSM styles are short term wear only. 

My partners have always enjoyed them mainly because my dick feels different, my ejaculations have a little more force because (of the blood engorging restriction) the come has to force through and my balls don't rise or retract up as I come. Only one not bad experience but a warning note for girls and a let them be surprised for the guys. When a women is on top obviously she will feel the ring quite a lot, but the rubber ones are more comfortable for both partners, but note! A women's clit will most likely hit right on top of the ring and be squished against the guys pubic bone and if the sex is vigorous or passionate...the ring will chafe just a little bit and your lady may experience a little stinging next time she pees or washes!

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