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From Al 
Hmmmmm ... I'm not fond of the darn things.... have only used a couple and then discarded them. I had one that you could adjust and it was a thin rubber strip like an o-ring if you know what that is. But it had an adjustment that seemed to always catch my hair and then it hurt so that didn't last long.

I also had a leather one that had adjustable straps on it. Didn't like that one much either. It really didn't prolong my erection though really ... and maybe I was using it wrong ... but it never seemed to work like it was supposed to which is to trap the blood inside so you don't go flaccid. But out of the leather one and the rubber one I preferred the leather.

From Cervo
The only one I ever tried was made of steel. It was quite heavy. The lady thought that was all sorts of butch, but she of course was not wearing it. I think she bought it at a plumbing supply house. Anyway it felt like plumbing equipment when I put it on. It was heavy, annoying, distracting, and finally boring. I took it off and had a drink instead. She was annoyed and disappointed. So much for cockrings.

From Piers
How long can one wear a cock ring and does it do any damage? Both questions depend on how tight you have it adjusted. The benefit is that it (obviously) enhances erections by restricting blood flow through the Corpus Cavernosi (the three lengths of spongy tissue which causes an erection when engorged). Viagra and other 'enhancing' drugs do the same to a lesser extent.

In practice the penis balloons up more than is normally possible at liberty making it a lot thicker, causing the glans to expand beyond what you might have considered possible. The shaft thickens, the veins bulge and, depending on how it is adjusted, can even enhance length. But I have found that the 1.5 - 2 inches it is possible to gain like this is too much for most women, - it can be too long and too thick. While it gives the man unbelievable sex the woman might not find it so enjoyable.

Strapping the penis or fitting a cock ring can also prolong sexual activity for hours as it may not become flaccid for hours, especially if the ring or strap is tightly fitted.

As a young man experimenting with 'enhanced' sex I found that I could maintain a constant erection for around four hours with the possibility of multiple ejaculations. I was later able to keep it erect in this way for up to eight hours; adjusted around the penis shaft and balls deeply beneath the scrotum and sliding the strap or ring to the absolute root of the penis in the pelvic floor.

But beware! There is a price to pay. Prolonged constriction of the penis can cause a Priapism. This is a medical condition in which injury causes a persistent and painful erection, which, if it lasts for more than four hours can become a medical emergency and the administering of a drug called Terbutaline is the only relief. The condition can lead to impotence or, in extreme cases, amputation.

Fortunately, I never experienced any problems like those. I no longer use cock rings because as you get older the penis tissue becomes thinner making wearing anything on it uncomfortable. But everything still works down there and I'd say - yeah, have fun, use cock straps and cock rings, but be careful!

From Big Balls
I would suggest shaving your balls before trying one on.  I was given my first cock ring by my Dad on my 18th birthday. He raised me by himself and since he is only 20 years older than I am, he has always be very open with me about everything.  He actually showed me how to put it on.  Now at the age of 33, I wear one most of the time.  It keeps me hard and when I come, the feeling is great!!

From Chef David
Both Pleasure and Pain... these are one of the only true toys for men, yet women get a full array of pleasure from it as well. Get a little creative, and one can be made at home. Think of the design of a wristwatch band.

From Jazz
It's been a while since I looked at this site but very timely now as just last week I was in Milan and bought a set of three cock rings very similar to the ones on Babeland (great site, by the way!). I've worn them several times since and while I don't really consider myself to be above average size I do find even the large one a bit of a squeeze to go over my cock and balls. To be fair my balls are probably bigger than your average guy...not a 'boast' just a keen observation.

Reading the Babeland site (How to Use a Cock Ring) it says to wear the large ring as you'd guess over the whole caboodle and slip your balls through the small ring. Mine just would not go so I used the middle ring and then slipped the small one over the base of my dick. The overall look and feel is great but I do get very engorged. I love the sensation on my balls which anyway are a sensitive pair and with the combination of the two rings on they feel as if they are getting some extra special attention.

I agree too that the rings make for a stronger and more intense orgasm which shoots further...reminds me of when I was younger and took such things for granted! So, from a recent and new user of cock rings I'd say 'go for it/them' definitely but my recommendation would probably be to choose something which is more flexible or adjustable than the metal variety.

From Daniel
Yes, cock rings are beneficial. The notion that "she" must be willing to have you use one certainly adds to the passion and orgasms. We use a vibrating one called the "clit flicker". The "clit flicker" has a protrusion that looks like a small tongue. The "tongue" hits her clitoris and helps bring her to more intense orgasms. She says the vibrations are great for her during intercourse. The vibrations also help stimulate my penis and my orgasms are also much more intense. 

This "clit flicker" at first looks huge and cumbersome. But, after several times and learning to use baby oil or lubrication, we learned how to use it properly. We will definitely try more "vibrating" cock rings. Do we use it all the time? No. But when those times occur when we would like to be a little bit more passionate and need some extra sexual release the "clit flicker" helps. 

As one woman stated "a good tongue is the best," my wife hardily agrees but the use of cock rings certainly add an additional bit of spice when one is desired. The wrong one might be torture but the right one is certainly a very good tool.


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