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From Ralph
I've been using cock rings for twenty years now. Just went and got an alchemy brand brushed ring that's a half inch depth. I love it. It moves my balls forward that they get painfully slammed when fucking or jerkin.

For those who are novices go to home depot, in the tool belt isle they have a two pack two inch metal rings, that up to now became my favs, but could fall off when soft. The alchemy is a one and a half inch won't fall off and has some weight to it, and retails under fifteen dollars.

From CW
I am 45 and have worn cock rings for many years now.  I love them.  I have them custom made of stainless steel to my specifications.  I have the cock ring, head or glands ring and nut ring all of the same design.  Of course, the nut ring is basically a weight for my nuts.  The cock ring is very heavy as well and gives me a great package.  I go commando most of the time and love having people see my meat hanging down my right leg.  When I wear the glands ring, it is great because it has a ridge on it so it looks like the ridge of my cock head. 

I have worn rings in the shower at the gym and they always get a lot of attention. Straight, bi and gay men are all interested in my jewelry.  And yes, I am glad to talk about and show my rings and am willing to let anyone touch them.  I guess you could that I am a cock ring teacher and I really can't imagine going without at least a cock ring.  I wear them all the time, heavy stainless steel at home and rubber cock and gland ring to work (I have to clear a metal detector to get in to work).  My next purchase will be a gland ring that has the metal rod that inserts into the cock like a sound and the gland ring holds it in place.

I have gotten a little tender when I wear a cock ring for several days but it goes away if I will sleep one night without it. 

During masturbation, I love to lube my cock all the way down to the ring.  When I am beating my cock, I am slamming my fist into the ring which is very pleasurable.  I always shoot a good load and can shoot a good distance.  My wife can feel the jets of cum when I shoot inside her and men who I have been with also love the feeling of the powerful orgasms that I have.

Buy a cock ring, a real one, not one of those from the hardware store. Those have a coating on them that comes off and can be absorbed into the skin. 

Have fun and ring that thing...

From Lumberjack
I had tried various cock rings, but was never really particularly happy with them, until I tried experimenting with penis pumps.  I should say I'm sixty and diabetic, and don't mind using any aid available.  Some of these pumps come with "two-handled" cock rings.   These cock rings are solid rubber with a "handle" on each side.  Those handles make it easy to remove the ring when I'm done.

When ready, I lube up the ring, and then stretch it over the base of pump.  I pump up my cock, until it's as big as possible.  The pump will actually make a cock bigger than its normal erect state.  Anyway, I then slip the ring off the pump, the ring snaps around the base of my dick, and it does a good job of holding the erection.

Originally I just did this playing solo, but then I took it into the bedroom to share with my wife (I was initially reluctant to show her that I was using the ring, but then, hell, I thought I'm also want to do this for her satisfaction.)  Finally, after three or four sessions, she complained that she didn't really like my cock being so big—it stretches her jaw open too much and doesn't fit well down her throat.  My wife really, really likes cock sucking. 

When having sex, we spend a lot of time with me kneeling by her head, my cock in her hungry month, and I'm manually playing with her clit.  Well, I don't want to end that, so now I only go into her mouth "natural".  However, now when I'm ready to really fuck her, I back out of her mouth, pump myself up, and slip that hard rubber ring onto my dick.  Then I stuff that huge cock into her, or first I'll beat her cunt with that log, an activity we both love.  I love dominating her pussy with that big heavy dick.

From Silverado
I use the large metal cock rings which I slip my balls through and then my cock. I wear them as jewellery (I'm to much of a coward to get a piercing) and because it gives you a nice feeling all day long. It's not too tight so I have worn them for 48 hours or more, but usually just during the day.

I also like the fact it draws up your balls, thrusts your cock out and produces a nice bulge in a pair of jeans, or shorts.

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