The Inside Story

How does penetration feel?

I've read a lot of erotic fiction that describe the sensation of having your penis inside a woman as you climax, but what is the reality? In the quest to better understanding the opposite sex, I have to ask: Guys, what does it feel like to orgasm inside a woman? How does it feel, physically and psychologically, when you're inside a woman and she climaxes?

I also want to hear from women about the flip side of this.  How would you actually describe the sensations of being penetrated, copulating, and having a man come inside you?  Inquiring minds want to know.  —Helen

The last time I was in a woman I was visiting the Statue of Liberty.  —Woody Allen

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From Lovely
Having not been doing it on a regular basis with the same bloke for very long I am pleased to be finally in a stable relationship with him. This is last night's story. We have nights in just watching the TV or bringing work home and typing away on the sofa. He'll bring me a cup of tea and then we chat a bit. He then gives me the look, and led me into the bedroom. I know what's coming next but unlike after a hot date I'm not very turned on yet, so I still feel it's all a bit surreal as he undresses me. I always think it's odd as he pulls down my knickers as this is something I usually do for myself. It's nice and snug under the duvet and as he starts to kiss and squeeze my breasts I feel very wanted, and gasp as his fingers start to circle my pussy.

He always waits for me to demand it before pushing his fingers inside and loves how once he does I climax in seconds and my legs can't stay together. As I come down again he moves over me, and before I know it he is inside me. It's a strange feeling, stretched and pressed down but made more pleasurable by the knowledge I am pleasing him. Each thrust inwards makes the bed squeak and I feel my muscles gripping his penis and the feel of his hardness and soft skin against my vaginal walls is super until he goes over the edge. He doesn't so much groan as grunt like he's been stabbed and then he spurts a great load (since it's usually been a couple of days) into me. I usually like to be fresh so the sweaty oozing tousled mess he makes of me is surprisingly pleasant and we both go to sleep in minutes. I can feel the next day when I have had sex - not just sticky with his semen but achy up inside in a nice way.

What did surprise me once I was "getting it regular" was how I was a lot less shy being naked in changing rooms with other women - knowing he finds me desirable makes me feel beautiful. Similarly I used to dread well-woman clinics, but last month I wasn't shy at all. It was like, yes, inspect and prod all you like - it's a normal, routinely used body part now.

From Anonymous
What a great question. Let’s see if I can do it justice.

Penetrating my fiancée is the most fulfilling, the most wonderful feeling in the world—physically, emotionally, psychologically. It starts with the anticipation . . . as we are in foreplay, touching, holding, kissing—and knowing that she is willing, that she is going to let me enter into her body, even as I see her getting more excited and wanting me to penetrate her. It makes me feel very loved and wanted.

Then comes the moment when we move into position and she guides me into her. It tends to be a magical moment for us, at least most of the time. The anticipation and building excitement—and then on the physical side I feel a little prickling of her pubic hair, and then I'm sliding slowly past the prickles and into a hot, tight, deliciously wet embrace. Usually she will gasp or moan softly as I enter her, which I find incredibly exciting. She’s on the pill, so we haven't used condoms for several months, and the feeling of totally naked, condomless sex, is extraordinarily exciting both physically and emotionally. The heat and wetness are so much better this way.

I penetrate her slowly so as not to cause her any pain, as well as to keep from overexciting myself (a definite danger since we ditched the condoms but one I've learned to handle), but as soon as we can both stand it I enter her fully. Then we just lie quietly for a little while, kissing, cuddling, and enjoying the feeling of penetration. After a while, just the knowledge that I'm inside her excites me psychologically to the point that I can't keep still any longer, and I begin to thrust. Or, if I don't, she will invite me to begin moving by contracting her vagina, which I find highly exciting, and this makes me start thrusting.

I tend to be a bit standoffish in my day-to-day life, but during intercourse, as I'm inside my fiancée, I feel a great vulnerability and openness to her which takes a huge amount of trust on my part—I could never be this intimate with a woman I didn't love totally. It’s like her vagina is giving my penis a warm, delicious hug, which goes on and on and becomes steadily more intense. It makes me more visibly excited and thus vulnerable to her, especially since I know that this hug is designed to bring me to a moment when, emotionally, I'm totally naked and exposed to her and one with her. So in a very real sense, I am surrendering myself to her vagina, letting her dominate me in a way through her vagina. She knows this—we’ve talked about it a lot—and she handles the whole thing with great sensitivity. She knows she has a lot of power over me physically and emotionally at this moment, and she has never misused it.

Eventually, of course, we approach the moment of my ultimate surrender. Michelle almost always has her orgasm(s) first, since once I get soft it’s over. I do manage to hold out that long, but her orgasm(s) excite me terribly on every level. She can tell from my reactions exactly how close I am, and she knows how I like to end. Usually we are side by side so I don't have to concentrate on holding myself up—I can focus completely on the sensations in my penis. As I reach the peak, she will draw her legs up so I can penetrate deeply, and at the same time she squeezes her vagina and makes little circling motions with her hips to finish me off. At this point I just let go and stop fighting; as I feel my fiancée’s vagina contract all around me, I feel my penis go into one long, incredible-feeling spasm, and then begin pulsing as I pour myself into her. We hold each other so close at that moment, which heightens the feeling of oneness and surrender. And since she’s on the pill, I'm emptying myself into her, not a condom, which brings us together even more closely.

What more can I say? This is what loving sex is all about—penetrating your woman and feeling that feeling of acceptance and surrender and incredible physical pleasure.

From Bushman
Wow -- love the descriptions the other guys have posted.  I agree with many of them.  And, the ladies' posts are very interesting, too.  Coming inside of a woman is probably one of the best, hottest, and sexually fulfilling feelings a guy can experience.  I feel as if I am sharing a part of me with her (which is true).  The feeling in my penis is of sweet, hot bliss as I squirt a load of cum into my girl.  My entire body feels tingly and energized as this is happening -- especially if my girl has her hands in all the right places as I am coming.  I suppose I could make a more detailed posting in the "Describe Your Orgasm" section on the other page, so watch for a posting from me over there soon...

Physically, when my girl comes, the sensations that my penis feels don't vary too much -- except that I may feel a change in how slippery her pussy gets, as well as the possibility of feeling her muscles twitch around my cock after she comes.  If I have not come yet, seeing her come may put me over the edge immediately.

Psychologically, when she comes, it makes me feel good in the fact that she is enjoying herself and that I have provided a means for her to utilize my body for her to give herself one or more great orgasms.  This is especially satisfying to me if she does, in fact, come more than once.  Hope this helps, Helen!

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