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From Falguni Parashar
I always thought of sympathy sex as some kind of nasty thing as it was for me taking advantage of somebody in distress, but my opinion changed with a recent incidence concerning a colleague of mine.

P****, 31 is a colleague of mine who has been going through a painful separation with her long standing boyfriend took to drinking and we all were concerned of her addiction. One day while working late, she asked me to go out on a drinking binge, I persuaded her out of it and insisted to walk down the lane to her place. While taking a walk to her home, we held hands and I narrated a cooked up story about my breakup earlier and how I came out of it. We reached her home and while seeing her good night, she hugged me to say thank you and asked me to come over for a can of beer. I reluctantly said yes.

Once inside her living room, while she was bringing out a can of beer from her fridge, I just felt like giving her a hug from her backside, when I did she did not say anything and kissed me turning her head towards me. One thing led to another and we had a marathon sex session on her living room carpet. I left thereafter feeling bit blank. Next day we met in office and I saw her a changed girl. She had smile in her face and while passing by, said you are wonderful.

Although we never had any further encounter thereafter, I have changed my perspective on sympathy sex. I now consider this as a necessary therapy rather than a taboo topic.

From Dennis
My friend's wife had been having an affair for a couple of years and she told him that she wanted a divorce. She still cared for him but wanted to be with the other man. She told him that they could have one last night together before she left. They went out to dinner and after they returned home she said that she would give him one last night of sex with everything. He said that she performed the very best that she had ever been. He said that it was the first time she had given him oral, vaginal and anal all in the same night. After that night he said he was really sorry that she was leaving.

From Midnightbones
I can honestly say that a sympathy shag is just as unique as the shag'er/shag'ee. I've never, nor do I think I would ever give a sympathy shag or a noble shag, until it feels right. I consider shagging a type of close, erotic, romantic activity. I share myself, be it physical, mental, emotional with someone whom I care about and not feel sorry for, or noble for.

From Cat
I have had the opportunity through my life to do give a sypathy fuck a few times. It was the most pleasurable thing I ever did. It was not just the fact that it was fun but because I helped out a few men who were having problems with erection. I'm a patient woman and knowing that erection problems for men can be devastating I went on a crusade to help. 

Taking everything into account I pulled out my book of knowledge and used all the magic I could. I love touching and to start slowly, added things as I went along that they hadn't experienced. Sometimes it was quicker than they thought possible others took more imagination. But I didn't give up until they were released and knew that nothing was impossible. I never saw it as a sympathy fuck but a gift from me that I also enjoyed.

From Ginger
I have worked in a brothel. Many of those fucks are kind of pity fucks though you get paid. The incredibly obese always chose me because I was the least slim girl I guess. You could hardly find the penis for the fat. Much of it was tucked up under their rolls so only a bit poked out. I got on top. They were so embarrassed and sad and looked away and said not a word. I enjoyed being affectionate and friendly to them and giving them some pleasure though I couldn't get them to relax and stop feeling shame.

From Volponia
I don’t know about sympathy fucks, but I’ve more than once given an ‘all right, already!’ fuck when the circumstances were such that I could not easily escape the nagging, and it just seemed easier to do it. Shame on me for being such a wimp!

From TreSart
Let’s see. I’ve done a drunken fuck...and so regretted! Also when it was towards the end of my 10-year relationship and she wanted to have sex, I’d agree, but I really didn’t want to. Guess you could call that a sympathy fuck.

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