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From Merrimint
Fisherman's Friend does come in tins now, similar to Altoids. Stay with the "original extra strong" flavor. The sugarless ones have only 30% of the menthol, and the bag states "33% more" [lozenges]. The girlfriend says she likes the shapes better than Hall's, and they don't dissolve so quickly like Altoids. FF lozenges are rougher on the outside than Hall's, so if you're going to use them for rubbing on the clit or elsewhere, first let them smooth down in your mouth.

From Kat
I was absolutely horrified at the suggestion of using vaporub or fishermen's friends near anyone's vagina [see Megan's entry below]. I have had two fishermen's friends related accidents that left my private parts burning like a bonfire. It REALLY hurt and was NOT fun. You people must have tough pussies....

From Megan
My husband introduced me to the delights of "Fisherman's Friends." The first time he placed these inside my vagina, and rubbed one around my clit' It blew my mind within 2 minutes - especially as I was tied to the bed in the middle of summer with the windows open.

From Magnanimous
It's my understanding (as best as most men do) that often incorporating even a small amount of a sugary substance into sex-play in, on or around the female genitalia can oft times initiate a yeast infection. I'd imagine some woman are more susceptible than others but it's something to consider when choosing a sugary addition to your sexscapades.

From Anonymous
This comes from a gay friend - find a vial of liquid icebreakers - not the tablet kind - these are tiny gelcaps with liquid in them. Then use your tongue to slip them up your partner's ass. Doesn't take long for the gel to dissolve and start an incredible feeling inside. About five is optimum.

From Anonymous
Have a guy put a mint Listerine strip on your clit, and lick and blow- 15 orgasms later I highly recommend it

From Jane Lane
I know the mint thing works, but sometimes too well- Had a spearmint /menthe "flavoured" condom used in sex, needless to say the mintyness and the friction made it one hot mint condom and sex had to stop because it got too burnt.

From HC
Try using mouthwash (listerine) right before you give a guy head... it gives kinda the same sensation as Altoids.

From Anonymous
Peppermint is a great stimulant. Suck on 3 or more peppermints. Immediately after they dissolve, and you suck his cock...he will feel a nice, soft, cooling sensations. As a woman, I love it when he rubs peppermint oil over my nipples. It makes them have that feeling of a cooling, arousing feeling. Sort of a like a body buzz.

From Claire
My boyfriend says that all using pop rocks does for him is feel like sand paper. I think it is more a novel idea and pops in your own mouth more than it really does much for him, according to my own bf and several other girls I know who've also done used the pop rocks on their bf's or husbands. 

Also, as an aside, if anyone ever comes near my vaginal opening with Vick's Freaking Vapo-Rub, I'm running the other way. That stuff is NOT supposed to be used near any mucus membranes, such as far up in the nose, the eyes, into the anus or tip of the penis AND in the vagina. There are tons of things that don't have the lasting and possible stinging/pain effect as Vapo-Rub that will give a similar sensation that I'd advise.

From Gem
I can honestly say green creme de menthe works very well. A few drops at a time smoothed on the skin, then lick the skin to get it wet and blow cool air over it. You'll definitely get a reaction.

From RJ
While I have learned the hard way that soap and water doesn't take off chili oil (ouch, contact lenses!) my lover and I have found spicy Thai food to be very exciting. We have a favorite restaurant and such a history of great oral sex after going there that it's pretty hard to keep our minds on dinner!

From Joan
May I suggest a mouthful of peppermint schnapps as an interesting after-dinner alternative? Quite tasty, and from what I understand, effective too.

From Mink
I agree with Caitlin. I've heard that male/female urinary tract openings can be highly irritated, causing pain and extreme burning. For a pleasant alternative, try giving him head with a mouth full of "pop rocks" - it can be a very stimulating experience and fun for both!

From Alan
My SO and I have made love after eating Mexican food, but we don't like our food super hot, so I'm not sure our experience would help you much. We didn't notice any great difference in oral pleasure. I suspect a bit of pepper that might find its way into the urethra during oral sex would cause sharp discomfort. Dare I say, like a pin prick?

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