Porn and Relationships
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From Mike J
We love watching porn together my wife loves to see guys wanking off, and recently when I asked her to choose the film she chose a lesbian one, and could not help but thrust her pussy out when the girls were locked in a scissor position, which almost made me shoot! Now she loves me to talk dirty to her about other girls taking her. Viva la porn!

From Anonymous
Porn and relationships is great in the right relationship, me and my ex used to enjoy it together and we were open about, it was never hidden like a "dirty secret".

But my partner who I have been with for 3 and a half yrs is destroying our relationship with it... our first yr of living together he was ordering it off the tv running up the tv bill and denying it was him at 5 a time every time I worked late. I even called them to confirm it was the adult service... he still denied it. Then 6 months ago we got a laptop and the internet and the obviously it progressed to internet porn, but sometimes he'd forget to delete the history... I had always been open that I watched porn and tried to encourage him to watch it with me but he'd just say it was disrespectful.

I wouldn't have minded him watching it, but it has majorly effected our sex life. When we first got together we were at it like rabbits, then as he watched more porn our sex life decreased quickly and he became less interested in my needs... quick blow job trying to make me deep throat, doggy style him shoot his load and he's done. Never longer than a couple of minutes.

I'm in my mid 20's and I have gone from regular sex to once a month to once every two months. But I had to wait from end of Dec 09 to mid march for a couple of minutes to get himself off and I got nothing out of it. He rejects all my sexual advances, in fact, and physical contact...get an odd peck on the cheek when I drop him off when he goes to work...haven't had a kiss with tounge in yrs.

I feel used when we do, rejected when we don't, my self-esteem is rock bottom, I don't feel like a sexual being any more when I felt like a sex goddess before. I can't take much more of it

From Kim
I've dealt with a porn addict. It was kept secret from me. Just about every time he went to the bathroom, he pulled out the magazines and started jacking off. He would get up in the middle of the night to watch porn and jack off....even if we had sex earlier. He called 800 numbers, emailed escorts, and looked up young girls on the internet that didn't look to be of age.

I tried to accept it, to the point of telling him...."ok, I don't care if you do it, just don't keep it a secret." He still did and if I caught him in the act, he would deny it. Needless to say, I had all I could take and we broke up. Now we're talking again and guess what, nothing has changed. 95% of his friends on FB are teens, barely clothed/naked, bi-sexuals, escorts, and lesbians. In general...they are looking for horny guys.

I can't deal with this because in my mind it is cheating. Someone said in one of the post something about would you rather have porn or adultery.....well...they are the same. If you are fantasizing about having sex with anyone...that's the same as actually doing it in God's mind.

Also, I don't fantasize about someone else when I'm having sex to have an orgasm. I have many of them each time I have sex with no problem. My whole thing is...if you are getting it at home...you shouldn't need to get off in between.

From Anton
My wife would freely admit she has slutty inclinations.  But she is also inclined to embrace it.  We both love porn; she particularly likes watching penetration.

We really don't mind the weak stories and bad acting.  We just love watching couples and groups fuck.  My wife can't stand to see men wearing condoms either.  She really enjoys raw animal urge fucking.  And she likes watching one woman suck a man's balls while another woman sucks his cock.

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