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Period ProtocolWhat's the protocol for having sex during a woman's period? And when you've just started dating someone, how and when does a gal let the guy you are on your period? Men, when discussing a woman's period, do you prefer euphemisms or frankness? If you're in a long-term relationship, when did you start having sex during your/her period and or do you at all? What about one-night stands? —Anonymous


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From Tim
Having sex with women while their period is not going to happen. I agree with lady j [see lady j's entry below], not so much that it's gross, but that it's messy. And honestly, it seems this side of crazy, I mean why not wait? It seems like the right thing to do is take a break from sex during that time and enjoy cuddling, kissing, and highten the anticipation.

As for protocol, simply say I have my period. Us guys aren't totally ignorant, matter of fact we have a healthy respect for the natrual flow of things.

From lady j
Sex while on my period is not going to happen. I'm really horny before & after my period. My periods last anywhere from 1 hour to a week. I had surgery in 2001 for heavy flow, so I never know how long it will last. I would never touch a female lover during her period either. I think it's gross & very unsanitary. My sister tells me she loves it because it helps with her cramps & kind of "pushes everything back into place." I told her that I have an exercise I can do that will have the same effect. I get on my hands & knees on the floor, sit back on my heels, push my body towards my feet & lower my arms so my face is near the floor. Like when a cat stretches it's front legs.

From Carol
My husband and i have never let my periods get in the way of our sex life. When we want to have sex and i am on my menstrual period the first thing i do before going to bed is pull out my tampon. Since i have been using a diaphragm with contraceptive jelly for birth control for 16 years it is in the night stand. After pulling my tampon out of me i just simply put the diaphragm in me go in the bathroom and douche then i am ready for sex without any signs of blood.

From Anonymous
I've always enjoyed sex during my partner's period. The blood never really bothered me and they always seemed so much hornier. The one part I really liked was the added sensation. The secretions seems to add more friction for us both.

One girlfriend I had was Catholic and didn't believe in birth control except the rhythm method (fortunately the sex before marriage thing was never a problem) so with her sex was mainly during that time. Fortunately, she was really good at oral and my skills developed considerably during that relationship.

From Shaikh
Well I have been married for the last 15 years and we make love at least thrice a week, but it was always a no no during her periods, but last year we went on our holiday and as soon as we reached our holiday destination she had her period which was not her due date.

Anyway as the evening approached we went for dinner, and on our way back she wanted to visit this live sex show in downtown Amsterdam, well as soon as we reached back to the hotel she jumped on me and gave the best oral ever , but she was not finished there she again started sucking it and got it hard again , but this time she wanted me to fuck her, boy her sweet pussy was so hot and it took me nearly 20 minutes of continues pounding deep and hard to fill her pussy with my juices and man I came and came filling her cunt to the fullest, from that day onwards she makes sure I fuck her every day during her periods not once but twice and I love it 

From Jim
My wife got her period the day after our wedding. We had waited to have intercourse until our wedding day, so we just started off the honeymoon having sex with her period. It hasn't stopped since. Sometimes she just doesn't want to put up with the mess, but that hasn't stopped us very often. We do put a towel down to make clean-up easier. I enjoy the sex and seeing my cock covered in blood isn't all that bad. I just hop in the shower to clean-up. She will do the same thing. She just needs to change her tampon more often since the added cum in her makes that necessary.

Once she was on her period and she just started to push my head down so I knew she wanted some oral. She had just gotten out of the shower and put in a tampon, so I thought why not. She went wild with it and I was glad to see her so turned on. This doesn't happen very often, but when it does, she just seems have a great orgasm from oral while on her period.

From Anonymous
I think it feels amazing to have sex during a woman's cycle. The satisfaction of shooting cum up her vagina and my dick being completely covered with her blood and having sex so many times a day because she's so horny. It's just so fucking hot! And to add to it, it helps her with cramps and shortens her cycle. Plus we don't have to worry about the mess because we put a towel underneath our genitalia. 

From Mick
My wife loves sex during no matter what her flow is.  I have no problem with it, and usually go down on her.  When we first became intimate it surprised her that I was not put off by her period.  I told her that was part of being a woman and I love this woman.

The protocol for oral sex is that she simply inserts a tampon and I am good to give her all the tongue work she needs and wants.  We use towels under us to minimize bed sheet maintenance.

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