Anal Sex for Straight Men

A penetrating question

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From Kevin
Anal Sex for straight men is great. It is not submissive and doesn't make you gay. As with all sex, with the right person, and at the right time, whether you're male or female, whether you're the giver or the receiver, anal sex can be very satisfying.

If you have never received anal sex and you would like to try... make some preparation. The anal ring needs to used to stretching to accommodate a penis or dildo - otherwise you are likely to find it very uncomfortable. Buy yourself a small butt plug and get used to wearing it... then buy another, larger, one and get used to that.

Make sure you have a good water based lubricant - never vaseline. Yes, it is wise to be prepared - you don't want to end up with a mess, so have an anal douche before penetration. The first few times - GO SLOW - whether you're the giver or receiver. And if the receiver says "stop", then "STOP"

From C
Sex in general has been a little different for me. The first time I had sex was with my wife. I was already 22 years old. For me, anal sex was just simply part of expanding the boundaries sexually and trying new things. Before her, I had never had sex at all, so I had no idea what was out there and what was possible. While I am not attracted to the idea of sex with men in any way, I do love to be penetrated, be that with a finger, or some other toy.

Although she has done it a few time, my wife is still not very comfortable penetrating me, and does not like to be anally penetrated herself at all. What I have found to work the best for both of us, is she puts on the strap on and lies back on the bed. I climb on (cowgirl position). This seems to work the best for her, as she is not behind me having to do any work, and I can still play with her while I'm riding.

From JP
As I read all these submissions, clearly I'm not alone.  I can only dream about my wife exploring my ass.  Over the years her interest in kinky sex has faded away.  I try to service myself every time she goes out of town.  As we speak I am plugged with a medium size plug. 

I have several dildos I use when I can.  Does anyone have any ideas on how to approach the anal subject without her totally freaking out?  Any help would be great.  In the mean time I guess I'll just keep on in secret.

From Doug
I can not believe how much I love anal sex, my wife pegs me about once a week. I would never want to be with a man—but my wife wearing a harness and dildo drives me insane. When she fucks me it is so intense. I moan—I tell her I love her over and over. When she first enters me—I go insane until she is done.

It scares me how much I love it. My ass needs to be filled at least once a week. I think I am addicted to it. At first my ass was a little sore a day or two after—but a good sore. Now it is not sore at all.

Guys if you want it from your wives or girlfriends—just ask. I  am so happy I asked. Best thing that ever happened to me. And my wife loves doing it to me. She can't believe how much I love it. I love her.

From JB
When I was first dating my wife, I had no interest in anal sex. We were separated for a month and she told me she had masturbated and used her small vibrator in her ass for the first time. From that point on I was VERY interested.

When we were back together I took her rear end, a first for both of us. I have always believed reciprocity is just proper decorum, so in addition to loving cunnilingus, I was willing to let her explore me anyway she wanted to. That meant getting doggy style for her while she used her fingers on my rear. Later it meant letting her have my rear with an anal plug.

The best came when she ordered a strap-on without my knowledge and told me we were role-reversing on our date night. She wore my clothes and had bought a skirt, garter belt, garters, male thong, heels and sheer blouse for me. To top it off she put make-up on me and put a wig on my head and we went out to dinner and drinks. It was an interesting experience in how I was treated, but the dressing up like a girl didn't do anything for me, other than give me an appreciation of what it is like for her to dress up with the make-up, clothes and heels to go out.

What did do something for me was her taking over in our bedroom that night. She took off the blouse and hiked my skirt up and bent me over the bed. She proceeded to redden my rear with a sound spanking. Then she put me doggy style while lubing me up. I was expecting the small anal plug, but she used a dildo equal to my size on me. I also have an appreciation of what it is like for her to give her ass to me as a result. I ended up coming on the bed without nary a touch to my penis and now she takes me anally a couple times a month while I take her a couple times a year, both to our mutual satisfaction.

I love her in control and how good she is in fucking my ass.

From Bob
Have been "analyzed" twice, enjoyed it totally and completely, and only wish I could have this on a regular basis.

The first encounter, as the one that followed, was completely painless - just enjoyable. I would advise any man to do this, at least one time.

From Adria
My boyfriend wants me to penetrate him, but I'm not sure what to do. Where is the prostate? How do I stimulate him? The idea really turn me on, but I'm scare I will disappointed him, I never did a man's ass before and I want please him as much he please me.

[From the editor: Adria, start with the excellent how-to article, The Pleasures of the Prostate]

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