What is Your Preference

Oral sex or intercourse?
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From Colin C
Full intercourse every time both for me and my partner. Once in a while a blow job is a nice change, but it doesn't come close to having a good hard fuck. Our scene is outdoor sex, and sex in risky places. My partner is always ready for a quickie. She just lifts her skirt and I'm in.

From Greg
I enjoy both intercourse and oral sex. But I think right now receiving a blow job to completion is above intercourse. But I think that is because I fuck much more than I get a blow job, so it is something I really want to have a chance to enjoy again. Just thinking of having her lips on my hard cock and her hand stroking me while she uses her mouth is a huge turn on. I would just love to release my cum in her mouth. I don't care if she swallows or spits, I just want to feel a good squirt of cum from oral stimulation.

From Doug
Maybe I've never had a decent blowjob.  Or maybe my neurological damage is too severe to allow me to feel much of anything from a blowjob, at least the last 20 years, or maybe both.  In any case I have never, in 44 years of being sexually active, had an orgasm from oral sex performed on me, or even come close.  Usually I can't even keep an erection because I feel almost nothing at all from it.  I'd like to have full sensation but sadly I don't. I always have wondered why guys like them. 

With intercourse I have a wonderful time.  As an empathic I really get going when the woman is orgasming hard for a while. I can ride her orgasm with her and have my own.  I think about the greatest thing is taking my partner through the seven stages of orgasm (Taoist).  It is very intense as it builds and I can ride it and join with her in a prolonged orgasmic experience. 

From Iris
I enjoy both.  My husband always enjoys me giving him a long, loving oral but he is an excellent lover so equally enjoys joining me in some TLC vaginal or anal intercourse. I remember once at a party we sneaked off and in a broom cupboard gave him a great blow job.  Seconds after he climaxed, me swallowing his stuff, the door opened, it was our host, she looking both shocked and intrigued.  As I got up and left for the bathroom, leaving hubby standing there, our host closed the door. 

From ApathyKiss
As with all sexual preferences, it depends on the lover and depends on what I am trying to accomplish. Mainly I would choose oral. As intimate as intercourse is, I also enjoy the intensity of it. But I have to say that a lover's skilled tongue gives me paralyzing orgasms that can't compete with a cock. Especially since I know I don't have to work, I just have to lay back and enjoy. That is what I like about giving oral as well. I can concentrate on the task at hand and not have to worry about if I am going to get off as well. I am only worrying about getting him where he needs to be - enthralled.

Although any sex is good sex to me, as long as I have someone that makes me smile after. :)

From Cathy
This is really a hard choice. If I'm in love with someone I'd like intercourse. I see blow jobs as an extra treat. Nothing like waking up the person in your bed with his dick in your mouth! As a teenager I learned early that  a guy would take a blow job instead of intercourse. It was a great way not to get pregnant. It also was great when I really didn't want sex and what guy turns these down.

Now as far as myself is concerned that is also not a yes or no answer. I have only found a handful of guys that can take me where I need to go. In this day and age you'd think guys would find out if their doing it right. Oral can make me scream, yell and cry at the same time. Hit my g-spot and I might pass out. But it does not take the place of joining together with someone, feeling the heat. The closest you can be to heaven. So, I hoped this answer helped.

From Maxine
Intercourse, definitely. I just love penetration, the intimacy of being joined with someone.

From A Man
Hope this forum isn't only for women ... I rather be face down between a women's legs, than dick deep. There is something facinating about women's vulvas, all those folds and lips, clits, such fun to play with. Of course intercourse is good also, a nice way to finish. But not nearly as engaging.

Now as for a blowjob, I'll take that over intercourse anyday, everyday, all day! So yes, my preference is, without a doubt, oral.

From Stacy
Oral is good, intercourse is nice, but like Rose [see Rose's entry below], vibrators rock my world. (my fav is the Mystic Wand). Which means put all three to good use, and sex goes into orgasmic heaven.

From Luna
Oral just doesn't create the right pressure in the right places for me. Occasionally I'll be in the mood for oral, but usually intercourse is far more satisfying.

From Anonymous
Oral oral oral - yes give me a guy who knows how to kiss a women down under, and straight to bliss. He's a gem of the rarest sort. Afterward he can have all the intercourse he wants, or anything he may want. I'm a gonner, and all his.

From Pat
Well, if I had to choose one or the other for the rest of my life, I'd choose oral in a heartbeat. I get orgasms from oral, where I don't from intercourse. At least, not the same kind or intensity.

From Vol
I would add that a man with a strap-on tied to his chin would fill the bill entirely. Unless, of course, you're truly, deeply in love, in which case anything he wants to do will be just fine. Hahahahahaha!

From Rose
I really enjoy giving oral sex, but receiving it? Well, I like that he's doing it, the idea of it is intimate, but I don't actually feel anything, or at least not much. It's just not enough sensation. It's enjoyable the way a back rub would be enjoyable, but that about it. Also, I can't see his face when he's doing it. I'm just lying staring at the ceiling, or out the window, or even with my eyes closed, kind of disembodied and trying to feel something, physically, and wishing I could, but it doesn't happen.

On the other hand (or should that be, on the other cock), intercourse means there's that wonderful sensation of being filled with that girth, the cock inside me, hammering into me, and the mental/emotional feeling of being taken, the raw power, followed by him coming and making all kinds of wonderful sounds. I love those sounds and I love when he's sated. I love that I am responsible for doing that.

Then out comes the Wand (no, not his wand, the Hitachi Wand) and, with him wielding it, I get to come. Now that is sensational for me...literally. That I can feel.

I don't achieve orgasms with either oral sex, or intercourse, and never have (I can do them, manually, for myself, of course), but at least with intercourse there are his sensations, which I can appreciate visually, aurally, and tactilely, and I just enjoy the sensation of fucking, of being fucked, even if I don't come.

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