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From Alan
My wife lets me come into her mouth but balks at swallowing saying semen irritates and creates a choking sensation in her throat like when she eats raw oysters. Mental block probably. I've sucked other men and myself off and swallowed without this reaction. After twenty years, the connection with my wife is real, meaningful which helps keep some perspective if any on my swallow deep-throat obsession. I know the pleasure of being swallowed. Flipping through so many comments has also helped to keep the disappointment/frustration at a bearable simmer as some say deep throat isn't all it's made out to be. But nothing's more intriguingly powerful than mystery or the unknown. The grass is always greener...

I've been at both ends of the happy prick and don't consider such dreams unfair, unhealthy or degrading. Who knows what surprises our love may have in store for us. Meanwhile, just have to deal with this tension. We both feel it and it creates a spark, something unsure, imperfect but ain't that life, anyway? Just par for the course I guess as long as we can manage it.

From scm
Yes, I love getting a " bj" but my other half doesn't do it a lot, why unclear to me, I don't ask, seriously I don't. When she does, I cherish it, she asks me not to "go" in her mouth and I don't question it for I do respect that without thought. I think its degrading to ask a women to do it. I feel if they want to they will naturally in their own way. In my 19 years with her, I regret to say I have asked her for one but I did later apologize for I felt I degraded her and she (with sincere look) said it didn't bother her but it did bother me. I will not ask. 

From Jack
I haven't had many different partners, but more or less there hasn't been a great deal of difference, except for one girl that blew my mind. I like the feeling of being pulsating hard while the girl uses only her mouth and places her hands on my hips. If I can be standing up while she is kneeling and in front of a mirror then I'm in ecstasy! I don't like the feeling of teeth and I've yet to find a girl that deep throats me or swallows my cum. The best I ever received was from a girl from Uruguay that went quite deep. Slow and deep and being able to watch it all is what I really like. I'm not bothered about being licked, or having my balls sucked.

From Nubia
My boyfriend absolutely loves the feel of my wet pussy on his chest and my ass in his face while I play with his cock in my hands and mouth. I can take all of him in my mouth and play with his balls much more easily. His orgasms are always much more intense when I do this. He also loves the fact that he can rub his hands all over my body while I'm giving him oral. And it feels great pressing my clit against his chest and my breasts on his stomach.

From Anonymous
I wanted to comment about the fact that most of the women posting have said that they feel they need to give oral sex in order to receive it, and that they can only reach climax by receiving oral sex. I have had a lot of difficulty giving blow jobs and have found a technique that works quite well for me. While I go down on my husband I stimulate myself with one or two of my favorite toys. I seem to lose myself in the act and my husband finds it to be quite a turn on.

From Latin Guy
I can't tell you enough how flattering it is to me and probably most men when their partner will take their penis in their mouth and bring them to a climax. I recently had a partner who didn't enjoy vaginal sex but loves to give oral sex. On our first encounter she dropped to her knees and because I love oral sex of all kinds, giving and receiving I couldn't control myself for very long. Her love of giving head is definitely the secret because she wants to make me come and unbelievably has made me come quicker than any woman has been able to. We met for a picnic lunch the other day and I was so surprised by her eagerness to blow me in the parking lot that I came quicker than I have with anyone in the last 30 years. 

So if you think that it won't surprise your partner or heighten your sex life then think again, I couldn't wait to get home and return the favor. Of course the obvious is that you need to love making your partner come with your tongue and taking them into your mouth with passion. It goes both ways because I love a fully extended clit on my tongue as well.

From Peg
I am one of those women who like to get and give oral sex more than intercourse. I am 52 now and my husband has a very large penis, so intercourse is painful sometimes. I will give him a BJ everyday sometimes. I enjoy pleasing him in this way so much that I regularly volunteer doing it to him. He has often told me, that to him, having his cock in my mouth is the most intimate act in the world. As for the cum, I would actually rather take it in my mouth than have it all over my face.

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