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From Cindy
Sorry to diminish the hype of the topic but I don't find the discharge from men or women sexy. Maybe because I am still a virgin and have not had the experience but the look of both male and female discharge disgusts me. I can't imagine why a woman would let a man cum in her mouth or give the man a blow job or the man goes down on a woman...tasting her vagina. To me if I ever have sex it should be a natural act with love, passion and sense of hygiene. I begin to be really scared after I read the comments on here. If my future partner enjoy tasting cum and wanting to cum in the mouth and stuff I think I am going to faint. That looks so scary and disgusting and very animal like. God, perhaps I want to stay virgin forever because I can't stand those things.

From George
I am sure that you have all read the stories of men and woman both getting into oral sex. I can say this without any doubt. Men do give a better blowjob that do women.  All of what is said on the posts I find to be very true indeed. Men do love to have their cocks sucked and most women don't like to do oral sex, this I find true from a lot of married males - those that I have met and have had the chance to talk to about oral sex, married or not.

From Brina
As a mother of three and survivor of a fifteen year marriage, giving my partner sensational oral pleasure is something I take pride in.  When time isn't an issue I like to start by caressing his balls lightly and licking his cock. Followed by using my hand to intensify the squeeze, then sucking really hard. I like to go way down on him and coming up slower than went down. When he is ready I love to increase my grip on his cock and concentrate on sucking the head while rubbing that baby smooth taint as he comes a heavy load down my throat. Typically I allow some to run down my bottom lip so I can look at him and rub it around with my finger and then suck it off while he watches.

From David
The receiving of really good fellatio and the giving of a long session of cunnilingus are, to me, the real high points of any good sexual relationship. However, I find that if a woman will not swallow the full load it really spoils the fellatio, however skillfully it has been performed up to the point of ejaculation. Why do so few women not want to swallow?

[Read through our Swallow or Spit forum for an insightful look into the hot topic of swallowing...or not]

From Anonymous
I can't imagine a women begging me for her to go down on me. I read their stories, man, you guys are LUCKY. I thinks it's degrading asking a women to give oral but I do hope she wants to naturally.

From Gilbert
I was surprised to read just how many sex partners contributing to this topic begin oral sex WITH oral sex. Don't get me wrong, I have yet to kick anyone out of my bed for landing a face-plant on my yucca bush in the middle of the night, it's just that working up to oral sex makes it all the more pleasurable for me. I'm a 48 yr. old male and have had more than a few sexual encounters so I've experienced the "I don't do that" to the "Whip it out, I've only got 5 minutes before getting back to work".

The best oral sex I've had has been when my partner and I explore each other's bodies first with hot passionate deep kissing, caressing, licking (especially my neck and inside my ears), nipple play (licking and gentle sucking), etc. By this time I'm pretty warmed up and have been known to come simply by having my partner lying on top of me or vice versa (I try NOT to let that happen). At that point, having the sensation of a warm mouth taking in my dick is almost too much to control.

For me, long slow dick sucking is much more exciting than diving in for the kill. I make it a point to verbalize "God that feels good" and "Yeah, yeah, oh yeah". That's usually an indication that I'm ready to blow so at that point the slow up and down sucking becomes more frantic. It's up to my partner whether they want to take it in the mouth or not but to tell you the truth, by this point, even I want to see just how far I can shoot my load! A couple of times I was so worked up that I hit my chin which makes the subsequent bursts just as intense (not bad for a guy in his 40's, huh?). Afterward I've been so short of breath that there was concern that I would pass out (which would not have surprised me).

From Jane
For many years I had been sort of ambivalent about blow jobs, not because I don't like doing nice things for my men, or semen or anything like that, but it just wasn't really a thing I could get into emotionally. It was always a wonderful thing to share, but not my favourite sex act. Then during a somewhat drunken folly (and you young'uns out there take my advice: drunk sex should be really considered an advanced technique. Lay off it the first few years you're sexual) my beau at the time grabbed my head -- probably to stay upright -- and began to gently move his pelvis while I held him in my mouth.

Two things: It felt like my face was getting fucked. It underlined that he was male and felt great. However, as a good feminist, I had a tape recorder playing in my head that it wasn't a partnership/equal/sharing. It took me a while to get over that. But I did. And to this day, blow jobs are most enjoyable for me we're not on a bed but with him standing and me receiving.

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