Oral Sex For Her: Cunnilingus

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From Anon
I am a man, and in my experience only a few women don't like receiving oral sex.  But it is very important to me to give my lady head.  I even broke up with a very sweet girl once because she wouldn't allow it, and otherwise I probably would have married her.  Sad.  She had a strong scent and was probably ashamed, but I loved it.  I have found no correlation with other attitudes.  My wife, for example, is very prudish in general, but she loves getting oral and she comes easily with it.  Other women are wild sexually in every other way but they don't want you going down on them.

From Anon
Guys, first make sure both of you are in a comfortable position.  It might take her a while to come.  I prefer kneeling beside the bed with her hips and pussy right there at the edge of the bed.  Build up by licking her thighs and bush first, to tease her.  Try different tongue strokes on her clit, various directions, varying pressures - she will let you know what feels best.  Also, don't forget her vaginal opening.  Some women want you to lick around it and probe it with the tip of your tongue or with your fingers.  Some might like something similar around her anus, too.  And when she moans or pushes against your mouth, keep doing whatever you're doing.  If you give her great oral, she'll be yours forever! 

From Mr. Eatemright
Poor Umbreon, your bf is out of his mind. Believe me you need to find a man like me who would be sooo happy to eat your pussy. [see Umbreon's entry below] That guy has really neglected you. He has no idea how pussy is good for him to eat and is good for his body. I hope the best for you to find that man who will open your mind and your legs to great adventures. I can't imagine any woman who don't like their pussies eaten, but there are those that exist. I wish I could be free enough to eat as much pussy as I can. I love women my age, between 35 and 50 and they are so delicious. I just can't find them. If humans were not so uptight, we could feed each other when ever the desire comes.

From Umbreon
I don't like the thought of oral on me. My bf told me that he would never do it and that it's disgusting and that totally killed my confidence about it. Now I just think it's oral sex on a girl is just plain nasty. I don't want it ever. I'm happy to perform oral on a guy though, I like it and my bf really enjoys it too.

From Kevin
I love to have a little mutual petting before I go down on my wife.  Kissing her neck, traps and working my way down to her breasts as I finger her clit gently.  She loves for me to please her with my tongue. Even though I know this I always ask her what she wants me to do.  I love it when, in her lusty voice, she tells me to eat her pussy.

I start out gentle, waiting for her head to start moving side to side, and then start writing the alphabet with my tongue on her swollen clit. I don't get any harder or faster until she starts grabbing me by the back of the head and pushing my face further between her legs. Now I know I have her feeling good.  I follow her lead from there on and finish her off, she comes all over my face, the taste and smell drives me crazy.  Then it is my turn, I slide inside of her and make love to her, waiting for her breathing to become shorter and quicker again. We come together. Satisfied

From Micky
I find that licking my wife's pussy turns me on almost as much as it does her. Sometimes I go down on her just to help get her wet and a little more turned on before having sex and other times I keep going until I take her over the edge. I think her orgasms are more intense with my tongue than my cock. 

From Walikeme
I am an older man who enjoys giving oral stimulation to a woman that is clean, with unblemished legs and pretty feet. I am impotent, and achieve my orgasm when she does.

From Suzie
I love it when he licks me, and he loves doing it, but it takes me at least 20 minutes to come, and he says it makes his tongue ache. He tends to lick at my clit in a really regular back and forth way - I love it, but I'm thinking I might suggest a few other things having read this section. I hate being under pressure to come to relieve his aching tongue!

From Incredulous
Rick, surely you're kidding us. [see Rick's entry below] You've got to realize that in bruising your nose digging around for your wife's clit is also bruising her? It's little wonder she's pushing you way. There's plenty of ways, various positions, to reach a deep clit without hurting yourselves. Get yourself a How-To book, try "Box Lunch: The Layperson's Guide to Cunnilingus" by Diana Cage, [Available at Amazon.com / Amazon UK / Amazon CA] the best cunnilingus guide ever to hit the shelves. Read it together, it's the way I found out what my wife really likes.

From Rick
I love to perform oral sex on women, and see, feel, and hear their reaction. I've only been with my wife of 35 years in a monogamous relationship since we first got married. She used to love it, but now she seldom allows me to even get close to her navel before she pulls me away. If I ever do get down there, she enjoys it immensely, but just at the time of orgasm she pushes me away (a big turn-off for me). I guess she's embarrassed with some fluid discharge at the time, but I love it an have told her so. Her clitoris is somewhat buried and it takes a lot of pressure to get there, so my nose ends up bruised the day after, and for about one more day. She says she is embarrassed by the bruising of my nose, and thinks everyone that sees me will "know" what was going on. I keep telling her that if anyone ever asks (they haven't), I'll just tell them that I bumped it in the garage. Doesn't make any difference to her. She's set in her ways and seems to be "cooling off" even though she has had great orgasms occasionally sitting on my face. Again, I still love it, but she has this guilt trip of having done something wrong at the time. Not sure where this will end up, but I may have to encourage her for some couple counseling, and maybe a bit of testosterone therapy. A bit frustrated here.

From DarkVader
Cunnilingus rocks! Besides being a sure way to pleasure a woman I really care about, it helps make up for what I see as my own inadequacies in phallic size and stay power. The fact that most men on the side of the world I live in are grossed out by the very thought makes scoring for guys like me so much easier; flirting seems to accelerate to sex much faster whenever I send the message that oral pleasure is my specialty. On the few occasions I've had girls who turned down my offer for an oral during foreplay it turns out that they either 1) lacking confidence about how their vagina looks (or smells) 2) Don't like giving blowjobs and are afraid I may ask them to reciprocate. All in all, I think a quality oral is something every girl could do with.

From Jill
A very close male friend started dating a widow in her early fifties who was married to a minister. She is an extremely beautiful woman but is very sexually repressed. After several dates he finally got her into a bed and she became very aroused and they made love. After making love to her several times over a few months, one night he tried to go down on her for oral sex but she stopped him. A few minutes later he tried again and again she was starting to protest but he gently but firmly pushed her leg over and proceeded to do oral on her. He said after a short time she relaxed and seemed to start enjoying it. She later told him that that was the very first experience she had ever had with oral. It seems that her minister husband thought anything like that was immoral. Since then they have had oral on a regular basis. This woman is like a schoolgirl dating. She is absolutely mad about this guy! I know why she is so happy, I dated him a few years ago myself!

From JMK
I have always gotten very hot at the sight of genitals. The sight of a beautiful pussy makes me almost come in my pants. My favorite thing is eating pussy. Now I know many will disagree with me but, I just love a hairy pussy. There is just something about those beautiful and delicate folds surrounded by thick natural hair that make me hard as a rock and start to ooze pre cum.

I begin by gently sucking her labia with the my outer lips only. Gradually I work the tip of my tongue along her moist lips and tease around, just above and just below her hardening clit. As this progresses, I gently wrap my mouth around her now hot and soaked vagina. I gently suck her juices savoring every drop, and dart my exceptionally long tongue deep inside her; working the tip against her most intimate spots. I gently suck her upper labia working only the tip of my tongue around and over the length of her now rock hard clit. I proceed in a circular motion alternating the tip of my tongue in back and forth and circular motions around and on her clit somewhat fast but, never too fast or hard. By now her body is almost stiff, nearly ready to explode and let go of her first orgasm, and so it goes.

From Susan
One of the reasons I married my husband was because of his "pussy eating" ability. The first time we had oral sex I came so often I thought my heart would give out. This is one of the things he loves to do for me. Once he starts down on me with that tongue of his, I'm know I'm in for it. That tongue just sets me over the edge. His tongue in my pussy and a well lubed finger in my ass, and I'm gone. I come so fast and so hard. I've even hypervenilated a few times. I love that tongue so much I even wrote him a poem about it for a Valentine's gift. He travels a lot, so whenever he reads the poem, he thinks of me, knowing I miss him as much as I miss his tongue.

From Nick
Can I make a plea? It may sound like male chauvinism but I dig ladies who completely shave their pussies. I love cunnilingus, always have done, but not when the pussy is lost somewhere in a forest of thick pubic hair that gets in teeth, on the tongue, at the back of the throat choking me to death! My wife has kept her pussy fully shaven since just after we got married in mid 80s and says her enjoyment is a thousand times better than when she didn't shave. I am able to kiss, lick, suck inside and outside her pussy and please her a lot longer than those awful old hairy days and I've managed to give her orgasms on a number of occasions thanks to my uninterrupted appreciation of her pussy. She says it's fun to check the look of surprise on another guy's face, sucking her through panties to start with, then removing them to find her fully shaven, a sight they obviously don't expect that is both sexy and exciting! From experience I know that my wife's fully shaven pussy mode is not common. So, why are ladies loathed to shave?

[Editor's Note: Nick, check out the entries in To Shave or Not to Shave... for a variety of opinions about shaving.]

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