Oral Sex For Her: Cunnilingus

Talking with your tongue

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From Jack
I once dated a woman who had never had oral sex because her husband whom she was divorced from thought it was gross. This beautiful woman become so engrossed with us giving each other oral that she actually liked me giving her head more than intercourse. She would usually ejaculate small amounts while I was sucking her. I have never enjoyed a woman as much as her. Her clit was very large and I sucked it loved to suck and gently nibble, this drove her to squirt into my mouth. The best way to describe it...HEAVENLY !

From Marilyn
I got my inexperienced boyfriend a book about how to give oral sex. He's done things that I'd never felt before. I have to say what I've liked the most is that he will rub right under my clit. I never knew that would feel so good. I prefer to start out by being "tickled" which means light kisses and feather light touches all around my snatch. I want to be teased a bit, and he's got that down pretty well now. He starts with long, slow licks. By the time he gets to my clit, it's like a relief. 

After the warm up time, he inserts two fingers. I am very particular about how he can move them. I like slow twisting or g-spot flicks, but I hate the in and out like fucking. It doesn't feel as good as real sex. I need more subtle movement. I like a little ass play, but he's a little funny about that so I don't push it. I've though about surprising him with latex "doctor" gloves, though. Otherwise, he is very open to my suggestions. I have a thing for being tongue-fucked, and he'll do that for me. We have done 69, but then I get caught up in licking him and can't concentrate on what  

I have to say that I'm lucky. My boyfriend is very persistent, and he's said that he will give me oral anytime I want because he thinks it's so sexy. He's a very giving man, and he likes to make me happy. (Don't worry; I love to return the favor!)

From ZT
[ZT is from South Africa] Most of women think that they don't love oral sex and that's not the truth but they are ashamed of their private parts. I normally wished that I could find a man that will give me the experience and that day comes and I was so happy. I met this wonderful man and he gave me oral sex, it was my first time of oral. He opened my legs with passion that makes me want more of him inside me. The way he licked and tickle my clit, it makes me scream and I was so ashamed when I fucked his mouth. It is a very amazing experience, I love it more than penetration. It makes me to realise that I can marry a man with no penis provided he knows how to eat me.

From Anonymous
When I was married, I hated oral sex, because my ex wasn't gentle and never complimentary. So now I'm with a new guy. One morning he started coffee and came back to bed under the sheets at my feet and went right for my clit. Before I had a chance to recoil from old memories, his tongue was at work all around. The ideal moves, the perfect pressure. Wow is an understatement. Now I want cunnilingus every time. Another day, I knelt over his face and lowered myself down. He described it as watching a beautiful rose opening up for him. That made me really wet. After circling my hips on him, his chin and cheeks were glistening. He told me he had only heard of a wet face but hadn't gotten one until now. My heart pounds thinking of more...

From Kendra
I am close to 40 years old and have never had an orgasm by intercourse. However, when given oral sex, I have quite intense orgasms. I love the younger guys because they want to please me and are usually very good at giving me the most wonderful orgasms. I'm quite sure that men can always please women this way, with cunnilingus.

From Susan
Roberto, [see Roberto's entry below] there is a double standard here, that you need to realize—and I suspect you already have a good understand of such things. As recent as the late 90's, many young women were very much aware of the fact that saying 'yes, I love oral sex, first date, last date, so what - just do me!!" would result in a derogatory 'slut' label, and possible the end of a solid relationship with a 'good' guy. Or, alas, there goes her reputation, period. (honestly, just think of your high school days, or small town USA.), And, most unfortunate, there's goes her opportunity for good sex.

The problem is asking before the issue has arisen  - so to speak. Rather then ask about the possibilities of oral sex before sex has even become an issue, is deadly. Meaning, you'll get a false answer - you'll get something that's socially acceptable, rather then what she's really wanting. I suggest you wait until that most important and exciting moment, stress how much you like her glorious beautiful pussy, and you'd like to taste her and ask if that's ok with her. Please note that I'm not suggesting you shouldn't ask, I'm very much suggesting you should ask about oral sex at the appropriate time.  I also suggest all men read up on cunnilingus (how-to guides are beyond value, as many women aren't yet comfortable guiding men, and men are not yet comfortable following directions with feeling a blow to the ego), and understand the social & political issues.

This is profound stuff, Roberto, and I applaud you on bring it to the forefront. The more men who ask questions, the better and easier it is for women to respond.

From Roberto
How do women feel about a man who's willing and ready to go down on you the first time you're in bed together? Do you think he's scummy if he wants to? Do you expect it? Do you assume he does it with every female he's with? Is it right or wrong? You may already know that men have a pretty basic perspective on this when the roles are reversed, right?

I ask these questions because back in the late 90s, I was on a blind date that ended up at her apartment, with the two of us planning to have sex that night. As we talked, I brought it up as a question to her, sort of, "Would you like it if I go down on you?" or "Will you let me" or something like that. I know, I know, it's awkward to ask, right? But it wasn't the kind of question I usually asked as a rule, for some reason, I just did, with her. Anyway, she said it was much too intimate an act for someone she didn't know, and that it would come later in our relationship, if things progressed that way. It's been years, but if I remember correctly, we may have discussed her performing oral sex on me, and she had the same view; too intimate for a first time together.

What's the proper etiquette for eating pussy the first time a man is in bed with you?

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