Oral Sex For Her: Cunnilingus

Talking with your tongue

If you would be so kind—for some of the less experienced pussy eater wannabes—could you give us some serious tips and techniques on oral sex? I have read numerous how-to manuals, and not much detail emerges. We need the mouth of champions to speak and weigh in on this issue of cunnilingus. Could we please have your input?   —Johnny Tender

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From David
I'm a guy that absolutely LOVES performing oral sex. Yes I love the taste and smell but, as one poster suggested, it's more than that. Not a lot of women orgasm from only intercourse unless they add some clitoral stimulation. So part of my love of going down on a woman is that I know she will have an orgasm. As one person commented it's also about the control I have. The woman is laying there vulnerable, exposed, and at my mercy. If I stop the woman will beg for more, if I want to prolong things I know to avoid the clit until I'm ready for her to orgasm, and if I want her to orgasm again and again I've got that control by simply using my mouth. Don't get me wrong though because, for me, it's more than the control issue it's that I love a woman who will expose themselves like that so they too have a lot of power.

The key to good oral though is that the guy must listen. Women don't be afraid to talk to your man and tell  him what feels good. Guys if she's not talking to you about what she likes then ask her. Some women like to be licked lightly while some enjoy it rough. Some like direct stimulation of the clit some are too sensitive. Once you find that rhythm though that she likes and she's grinding herself against your face because she's so into it, there's nothing like it. And when she orgasms and your face becomes slick from her wetness, there's nothing better.

From Tiffany
I agree with Heather from Texas. [see Heather's entry below] But I do think there are a few men out there who do like going down on a woman. I've met quite a few and here's why I believe they enjoy it: they realize that unlike when men receive oral, when women are being tongued, they become completely submissive. Men who enjoy it have learned that they can pretty much control a woman if they do this right. Especially since so many guys are bad at it and don't like to do it. 

Let me put it another way: I met a man once who hit on me hard. I had no interest in this man. I was not attracted to him, we had nothing in common. He was persistent over many months. One night he drove me home and when we got to my door he whispered in my ear if he could pleasure me orally. Being horny, I accepted. I was heartless in my determination to get a good orgasm having no interest in the man and told him point blank that there would be no intercourse. Needless to say this guy licked and sucked me to the moon. I wound up dating this guy for almost 3 years and was pretty much controlled by the pleasure he gave me. And yes, it was a challenging relationship because we had nothing in common. But oh God.... the things he did with his mouth and tongue and he also could fuck like nobody's business. 

I feel sorry for guys who don't get how important oral pleasure is for women. Guys who do rule!

From Heather in Texas
Even with all that I have read and heard, I don't think I will EVER really believe that any man actually LIKES performing oral sex on a woman. Over the years, it's gotten into my head that men don't really like to do it, partly based on my own bad experiences (and yes, I'm clean and attractive and all that!). I just can't believe that some men genuinely like it. It doesn't gross me out or anything, and it doesn't really matter at this point, but I still can't believe it.

From TrulyBlonde
This site is awesome. I really enjoy reading everyone's ideas and experiences. Having a man down between your legs is the ultimate. I enjoy being licked, sucked and explored for hours. The slower the better. I keep my pussy fully shaved. It is such a surprise for a new partner to see and feel your shaven pussy for the first time. They really enjoy going down on you and licking the clean shaven kitty. Once you've shaved the kitty, you'll never go back. It is very pleasurable to have him start by licking right through your panties. That way he gets a taste and a smell of what is yet to come. I am not a lesbian, but I would like to lick another woman's pussy sometime. Knowing how I feel, when a man is down on me, makes me want to experience the same pleasure. 

From Anonymous
I wish that my man would travel down south...I am more than willing for him.

From T
I'm extremely lucky to have a husband who loves to eat my pussy.  It took me a long time to believe that he actually loved it but over the past 13 years, he has proven it. There's nothing like hearing my husband tell me that he can't wait to eat me out and suck up all my juices.  The thought of it makes my pussy wet.  He's knows just what to do to get my juices flowing just so he can bury his face between my legs. I get turned by guiding his head between my thighs and then to see my juices all over his beard and moustache when he looks at me.  Not to mention the glee on his face.  He says he loves the smell, look and taste and as good as he makes me feel, I believe it.  It gives me more confidence knowing that other men feel the same way.

I feel sorry for the women who cannot enjoy the same pleasure.  Though my husband's dick is also good to my cunt, I prefer to fuck his face instead.  I come multiple times and each time he has no problem sucking me dry only to come up to kiss me and show me how tasty I am.

From Anonymous
I want a man that loves to eat pussy, but they sure are hard to find.  I want him to finger fuck my pussy and ass hard while sucking and massaging my clit.  All the while, I want him to talk really dirty to me.  Tell me how much he enjoys my taste and smell and how hard I am making his cock.  Get me really wet and threaten to fuck me in the ass if I don't come and then do it anyway. 

I also want to eat another woman's pussy while my pussy is being sucked and while I am being fucked.  Do you exist?  I often think I need a man that's been in prison for awhile, so he appreciates a good pussy and wants to literally sleep between my legs.  Where are you Mr Right?  Do you exist? Bring your wife or girlfriend along to play.

From Trish
John is absolutely right! [see entry below] Become the pussy! There's no greater pleasure than to receive the appreciation of a man's mouth all over my pussy. It shows an indescribable craftiness I must admit, a lot of men don't have. By the way, the way I score my SO has been in the time he takes to prepare me for my "treat", and if he's doing it just for me or for us. Creativity always gets bonus points.

From John
As for tips, I have just one: get into it! Lose yourself in the act. Every woman that I've ever discussed this with has informed me that they can tell when their partner is enjoying him/herself. I believe that is the key. Devour. Taste. experience. BECOME the pussy. Use the force Luke.

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