Mutual Masturbation

Doing it alone, together

Just wondering ... I see a lot of comments here from folks who are single and say they masturbate for a particular reason: No partner to share sex with. So what does that say for a person like myself, who is married and has been for 18 years and who has continued to masturbate (with a lovely purple, jelly vibrator, thankyouverymuch) throughout that time. I LOVE sex with my hubby, but I like my "alone" time as well. I never considered myself a perv for this practice, but wonder if there is a weirdness there for a person who masturbates who does have a partner.  —Raquel

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From Anonymous
I have masturbated as long as I can remember.  I can remember not being more than five and dry humping the edge of a chair until I would come.  This early interest in sex led me to my first sexual encounters which were with another girl.  I would lay on a bed with my feet hanging over the edge.  Then she would straddle my crotch, and put her pussy right on top of mine.  She would stay upright but we would pull on each other to create pressure as she slowly rotated her hips in small circles, grinding our wet pussies together.  We started doing this fully clothed but then decided it would feel better if we were naked. 

Some of the best times occurred when we would hump each other at sleep-overs, other girls not more than a few feet away from our pleasure.  This continued over the next several years, as we would perform strip shows for each other before assuming the position, and feel our naked, wet pussies slowly grind together in unison until our clits met and we both orgasmed.  I only wish we knew enough to have used our fingers to fuck each other's tight, wet cunts.

From Jim
Mutual masturbation has been a new and nice change of pace for our love making. We stumbled into it and then developed it further into a nice part of arsenal of pleasures for each other. My partner isn't much into masturbation at all and so touching herself isn't easy, let alone in front of me. We had been enjoying some nice intercourse and I pulled out of her because I was about to come and had to slow down to last longer. We still had much more to go. She wanted continual stimulation even though I had to pause a little bit. So I just started to rub her pussy with my hand to keep her stimulated. Her hand was right next to her pussy so I reached over and put it on her clit and she just took over. Watching her hand slide over her little bush and circle her clit was absolutely amazing. After a short time she pulled back and stopped. I told her to keep going that it was highly arousing for me. So she slide her hand back down and started again. Before long she had inserted a finger into her and was just having a great time. Her hips were moving in a nice rhythm with her finger and I could see her juices on her finger as she withdrew it and then moved it back in.

By now, I was so hot that I just started to rub my cock. She looked over and saw me stroking myself  and just kept watching while she continued to work on her pussy. We kept this up for awhile and then she said she needed me in her. I moved over and my cock went right in her pussy. She was so wet and I had plenty of natural lube on my cock. We both came immediately we were so turned on from watching each other and from the stimulation.

From there it has continued. Usually one of use will guide the other hand over and we know it is show time for the other person. She loves to watch me stroke my cock while she gives me oral. And I love how erotic it is to watch her play with her clit, stoke her labia, and use her fingers to penetrate her pussy. What a great deal of fun this is for us.

From Freehike
Mutual masturbation is something in the last few years that I started to try to implement with my wife. My wife does not masturbate and isn't very comfortable touching herself even during sex. For a long time I was excited about the thought of watching women masturbate and having someone watch me. With my wife's negative view about masturbation and any type of self stimulation, I was sure if we could ever do this for each other. But I thought we should give it a try sometime.

That first time happened just as a part of a sex session and was the opening for expanding into mutual masturbation. I was going down on her giving her great oral sex. Plenty of tongue in the vagina, kissing of the labia, and clitoral stimulation. Also fingering and stimulating her g-spot. She was really turned on and her hand moved down to her little short muff of pubic hair she had. She guided my hand to places she wanted me to stimulate while I continued to give her oral. I then slipped my hand on top of hers and moved her hand down to her pussy and used her hand to stimulate her while I took a short break from the oral. When I let go of her hand, she just kept on stroking herself which was so exciting. I moved my hand to her nipples and watched as she took her fingers up and down her labia. Then circled her clit for a little bit and back down to her labia. About this time she got a little self-conscious about touching herself and pulled her hand away. I went back down on her and finished her off with some final oral.

After a few times of repeating this type of action and telling her how hot it was to watch her stimulate herself, she become a little more comfortable with doing this in front of me. I just love to watch her fingers moving over her labia and the way she circles her clit. Now she even likes to insert a few fingers in her and rub her g-spot. I stood up once to go get a drink and told her to keep going that I wanted to watch for awhile before getting my drink. She gave me a great show and I never did get that drink because I was enjoying the show too much.

So I decided to do the same for her and to also have her watch as I stroked my hard cock. So when she was down on me giving me oral, I moved my hand over and lightly started to stroke my cock and balls. She enjoyed watching this and then took my hand with hers on top and wrapped it around my cock and started to stroke it. When she let go, I just kept on stroking myself while she watched. Now she will reach over and grab my hand and move it to my cock when she wants to watch me. It is a good signal that she will enjoy the show and she loves to suck on my cock while I rub it with my hand.

I recently took myself all the way in front of her and shot cum all over sto

From Beth
Masturbation is the key to monogamy, I've come to believe, and the secret to a happy sexual life in marriage. If we couldn't play in our heads with our fantasy lovers, we'd be having affairs left and right. I've been married for 27 years to the same man, and we've both been faithful to each other. And we both masturbate, in addition to our sex life together.

Back in our 20s, after we'd been married for just a few years, I found a Penthouse in my husband's nightstand, and got upset about it. Why was he masturbating to fantasies of these women when he had me, I wanted to know? Because there were urges that were outside our marriage, he said, urges that were his alone, places in his head where he wanted to go by himself. I didn't completely accept that at the time, but then I got pregnant. Other women I've spoken to have said the same thing about pregnancy - once you get past the first trimester, you're unbelievably horny. All that blood engorged down there - I finally understood what a teenage boy must feel like. I hadn't masturbated all that much before our marriage, but I started doing it constantly - at least once a day, sometimes more. And I started to understand what my husband meant.

After my daughter was born, I kept masturbating. It became another, regular part of our sex life. And the older I've gotten, the more important that solitary time has become to me, the richer my fantasy life has grown. We still have wonderful sex together, but my husband knows how much I look forward to Tuesdays and Thursdays - the nights he works late and doesn't come home until after I'm asleep, and have enjoyed some time in bed alone. "How many?" he always asks me the next day, and I smile as I tell him - two or three, or even four wonderful orgasms, just my hand, my head and me.

From Lorenzo
I  have been married almost 28 years and love to masturbate.  The only problem is my wife is very self conscious and is embarrassed about admitting she does it.  When we were dating and petting one night, i asked if she ever did it and she just clammed up.  During our marriage, I continued to jack off because she was very limited in what she wanted to do.  She would not let me finger her and thought real sex was intercourse only.  She was very uncomfortable with oral sex, her on me or me on her.  She also only wanted to have sex about once a month.  She became angry when she discovered that I was still masturbating.  She would say that was her job and would get angry if I touched myself while we were having sex.

I was always turned on by watching women pleasure themselves, partly because I loved to hear/see them come and because I  liked a woman who really  knew what she wanted.  I told my wife this, but she was still too self conscious.  Now , due to medications, she can only climax with a vibrator, which finally she'll let me watch.  I still don't jack off in front of her because I can tell she really doesn't approve.  I would love for us to have mutual masturbation sessions and watch her play while I play.  Maybe someday, she'll be more comfortable with it.

From Anonymous
My wife and I have a wonderful relationship.  We've been married a very long time.  We have always and continue to spend a lot of time together naked.  We still have intercourse, and I can still bring her to orgasm that way, but we have always enjoyed masturbation.  Although my wife does not like to masturbate with her own hand often, she loves for me to masturbate her to orgasm, very strong and high, arching, noisy orgasms.  She often masturbates me at night when we go to bed.  But also, I have my own room for watching porn movies and masturbating, which I use whenever I want to. 

Still, in addition to that, sometimes sitting naked in the family room, just watching TV, I'll decide to masturbate.  My wife watches me masturbate with pleasure, but most often can't just sit and watch until I orgasm, but gets up and comes over to me and plays with my balls, lower stomach and scrotum until I come.  These are very strong orgasms for me.  I arch my back, throw back my head, spread my legs and toes.  My legs come up off of the recliner foot rest and I grown, moan and growl loudly. 

I honestly believe few men have this kind of a wife, and this kind of freedom.  Some days, on occasion, I get naked and masturbate to porn all day and all evening, sometimes coming as much as four times, and that's pretty good for 71 years old. 

Before we were as liberated as we are now, when we were first married, we always slept naked together, and during her period, she would always masturbate me to orgasm; that was from our first day of marriage.  So, masturbation has been a major part of our marriage all of these years.  One thing, my wife does not like to give head, and has only sucked me a few times.  At one time I hated that, but once I realized how lucky I was to have this total freedom to masturbate, naked wherever I wanted around the house, whenever I wanted, as often as I

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