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From Mister Truth
I am a guy. There is NO bigger sexual turn-on in the entire world to me as much as women with Big Pussy Lips! As in long, thick, meaty and dangling labia minora. I often wonder what is beneath the clothing and/or jeans of women in general, that I walk around in a day. 

I absolutely LOVE Big Pussy Lips on women, that is the number one physical-sexual turn-on to me. Women with huge, long and meaty pussy lips represent the highest lot of femininity. The longer and thicker the labia minora and clit hood labial structure, the more feminine and erotic she is. I say this based on physiological fact as well as observation and experience. Women with very well-endowed labia, tend to be laid-back and fun women too. I can see why, since their very selves are at a high level of sensuality, pleasure and continuity of female-ness. I don't know why any woman who has a large labia would feel insecure of anything. Since most women who don't have big labia would be jealous of them, and most men if they caught a peek at their treasure would have a hard time walking normally and have issues with drool. 

Anyways, I absolutely LOVE women with large labia!

From Anonymous
Well, I have a large clit, and when I wear underwear you can see it a little. It (at least to me) is embarrassing. I'm very young and a virgin but am afraid to have sex because it's so large, about an inch. Well correction, I have a large clit hood that covers my clit. That's what sticks out and also have large labia. I think this might have something to do with being pre-mature.

From Charlie
Well I am decidedly on the fence with this one. I have an average sized clit, but quite big outer lips. That's ok with me, but one side is MUCH bigger than the other and has been stretched since I hit puberty as it gets in the way. I once measured it out of curiosity (yeah, I was bored) and when stretched out it is 1.5 inches longer than the other one! It is very uncomfortable and sore at times (especially during my period) and I would happily cut it off myself if I knew I wouldn't bleed to death or something.

It is nothing to do with appearance as I have had nothing but praise from guys/girls I've been with, but if I could afford to get surgery then I would just to stop the constant soreness. I would still keep my lips big though as that is how I was made and I don't want to change that.

From Joe
A couple of comments first before we get to the 'nitty gritty' (which is exactly where?). It would be difficult to actually look at the vagina, since this is an entirely internal organ. The proper term for the external female genitals is the vulva. However, in deference to a female colleague who named her activity book "The Cunt Coloring Book", I will use the "C word". 

I have no idea how many women I have been with (I don't keep score) both fore and aft. Add this to the point that I am a long time nudist and collector of art and I have probably seen enough cunts and assholes to populate a small city. In that time I have seen exactly one cunt that I would consider ugly (think giant clam shell including the colour) and one truly ugly asshole (think frozen radish). In neither case was I deterred from fucking them. Once the female scent (avoid perfumes!) gets to the limbic (primitive) part of the male brain, the woman could look like Godzilla and it would make no difference to the activity to follow.

Note I have said nothing about relationships. Relationships depend on what is between the ears, not what is between the legs. If you are in a 'relationship' that depends highly on the appearance of your cunt, you are in for more trouble than any rational human being wants to face.

From Dave
What!? Cosmetic surgery to make a pussy more visibly attractive? Utter insanity. Do any of the ladies know any guys who'd have their dicks surgically straightened or lifted or whatever except maybe to repair a serious injury. These are functional body parts, not intended as works of art. If there's anyone, male or female, that insecure about their genitals, they need therapy not surgery.

From Mel
I'm glad I found a site where men actually claim to like larger lips or any shape of the vagina lips. But, not all men have the opinions expressed in this website. I looked on a "love and relationship" discussion board, and all the men seemed to agree large lips were a turn off. All they did was make fun of women, and nickname them 'meat curtains' and how they are always grossed out by any parts that hangout as it reminds them of "female balls" from behind. They also said most men have these opinions towards women's genitalia. They said friends will ask them, after having one night stands, whether or not the women had "meat curtains" and how nasty it is.

So for the longest time I was really down about it, assuming, what I have must be a huge turn off. Thank goodness for this site because I now feel better that not ALL men think like the ones on that board.

From Anon
I'm young and I think my labia are big and I'm scared they are going to get even bigger as I get older. Some of my friends have done stuff with their boyfriends but I haven't for the reasons that 1.  I feel I'm waay to young for that stuff and 2. because I'm embarrassed to show or tell anyone about them. I can remember having big labia from when I was little when I use to come out of the bath and wonder why I could see mine from a front view and my sisters were hidden.

I've even considered surgery because of it. I'm really really embarrassed and I know that they say most men think they're sexy but teenage boys are different because they watch porn and think that small labia are the 'ideal size'.

But thank you for everyone commenting, it has helped me a lot to understand that a lot of other people are exactly the same as me and that I should just be proud of who I am.

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