Designa Vagina

lips to die for...?

Watched a programme whilst on nights about women who have plastic surgery on their large labia: "labiaplasty" (nipping women's genital lips), "vaginal rejuvenation" (tightening the vaginal muscles) and "vaginal reconstruction" (tightening, shaping, sculpting). Now I can understand this being done for comfort/post baby tightenings, but some of these women were having it done for completely cosmetic reasons.

Do they have a fashion parade of pre and post? Open crotch jeans to show off whilst shopping? Question: guys, do you have a preference for size and shape of labia? Would you leap out of bed if they didn't suit you? Tell us please, it's interesting I think. Ladies, would you contemplate this surgery at all? Me?....<shudder> No.  —JoJo

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From Andrea
Anything a man has to say about this subject should never influence a woman on this subject. A woman should always make her decisions about her body on what she alone wants. What some men don't realize is that oversized labia cause pain and embarrassment to a woman. The men are not the ones having to put up with the discomfort. Ladies make up your own mind and tune out what the men want.

From IntriguedOne
It absolutely blows my mind that a woman would not want large labia.  Of course, I'm only one opinion, but prominent labia is a MAJOR turn-on.  I don't want to be judgmental, but I'll be honest and say a woman with just a "slit" is personally for me, a let-down, particularly when it's hairless as well.  I love to see prominent labia...the longer, the better!  It makes cunnilingus that much more enthusiastic for me.

It's truly a shame that any woman would actually pay to have a surgeon reduce them.  Something is truly wrong with their self-image and the influences around them.  That's like me having surgery to shorten my dick...why in the hell would I do that? So why reduce your labia when it's such a turn-on?  I'm baffled!

From Lidia
This procedure has become one of the most popular surgeries for females. Having oversized labia can be quite painful and it gives ladies an option. The important thing is to get a good and quite experienced doctor. A female should never be berated for having this done, after all, we haven't walked in her shoes.

From Amelia
This is for Bill from Scotland. [see Bill's entry below] You say you don't like to criticize anyone's body yet you basically did it twice!  My jaw hit the floor when I read your comment because for some reason, I expected European men to not care so much on such trivial things but clearly I was wrong.

My lips aren't really long yet they are not small either.  They are just a little past the outer ones so they are visible and I've never had any problems with it.  The last thing I would want is for someone to dump me all because of ONE physical feature!  I have seen too many times both women and men saying that anyone who puts a woman down because of her longer labia is a jerk yet people do it to those who are smaller as if it's acceptable?  That's so stupid!  Two wrongs do not make a right.  If people are angry with what the media is putting out there then take it up with them, not the everyday woman who happens to be the opposite from you or from what you have seen.

I'm not religious but I do believe in the saying "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" so I'm certainly not going to trash someone just so I can feel better about myself.  Obviously a lot of the people here need to learn about that.

From Bill (Scotland)
I don't like to criticise anyone's body, I'm an average guy with an average penis, but personally I like a woman who has a bit of "geography" in the vaginal area. I have been with a couple of very nice ladies in the last 10 years or so who have been very close to me but I subsequently had to end the relationships because their vaginas did not appeal to me. Both of them had a big, long, almost hairless slit with nothing poking out and I couldn't have gone through life pretending that I enjoyed licking them when in all honesty, it did nothing for me. Better to end it than to live a lie !

My long - term girlfriend of 26 years ( work that one out ) has a superb little pussy with just enough labia protruding for me to really enjoy a sustained session of cunnilingus. We have a male friend with whom we have regular mmf sessions who will confirm that.

From Raven
Pussies/cunts/vulvas/labia (ANY word but "vagina", which is an INTERNAL organ and has nothing to do with this discussion of external genitalia) are like flowers. Each one is different. They have petals of all shapes and sizes. They come in all colors. They have all sorts of scents. They are silky soft. They contain nectar inside. They are all beautiful. And they are the portal of life itself. Keith Richards once said, when asked what the most beautiful thing in the world was, "a woman with her legs spread open". Please note that he didn't specify any particular type of pussy.

It breaks my heart to read of women who have been made to feel there is something wrong with their beautiful flower. My lips are a bit large, I suppose..they are visible, not hidden away inside..and a bit dark (I've borne 2 children), and yes, now and then I feel the need to adjust my junk to prevent uncomfortable rubbing in tight clothing, but I've never once felt that there was anything wrong with them.

I've only ever been with 1 man, my late husband of 23 years (it's been over 3 yrs and one of these days, I hope to find love/sex again) and he worshipped my pussy, so I never experienced any of the negative feedback some here have shared. Nor would I tolerate it today...hey, if it is not to your liking, that is YOUR problem, not mine. Push off. I'd never cut myself to conform to some fashion standard rooted in porn or anything else or to please a lover. My cunt is lovely as she is...beautiful, responsive, healthy.

From Stuart (Isle of Lewis)
I couldn't agree with Juda more.....vaginas are like fingerprints, unique to the owners. [see Juda's entry below] And no two vaginas are the same and neither should they be. Different they are but like faces the beauty is in the eye of the beholder and no woman should feel the need to alter or have surgery to what is the jewel in her crown. Any man who has argument with this needs to get a life and love his woman for what she has and he should always be prepared to worship at the alter of his temple of love.

Vaginas are big, small, neat and tidy and large and floppy but they all have their own character and Juda is perfectly correct. I don't know the shape of her vagina but she is rightly proud of it and the fact that she has one should be enough for any man to be proud about. For the pleasure they give cannot be measured. and how dare they criticise and make offensive remarks....how many of them have looked at their own dicks lately...they are not all works of art.

From Juda
No, I wouldn't touch my labia or any part of my zsu-zsu. After seeing the Vagina Monologues, I began to see things from her perspective. When I saw my first porn vid I went to check myself and decided I'm much prettier than any of those ladies. I also saw an art exhibit where the painter did only vaginas. At that moment I realized we are all different. To the artist, each one of those zsu-zsus were memorable.

Vaginas aren't supposed to look like they came from a factory. Certainly, I understand the need after children and so forth, and can sympathize for reconstruction, but because of fashion? Nah, a vagina's supposed to be one of a kind, not designed for department stores.

From Anonymous
It's funny to think how self conscious I used to be about my labia/pussy in general, but I now I feel pretty great about it. I always thought my labia were large based on a few comments some high school boys had said, but then again, none of their comments were ever negative, more just matter of fact.

Anyway, I was very self conscious for so long, but after fooling around/being naked in some capacity with probably 60 men at this point, I'm really not self conscious at all. Not one guy has said anything negative about my pussy and many have made comments about how beautiful it is. Bottom line, I wish I was in the place I am now years ago because it really was unnecessary worry/embarrassment. Love your pussy and stop worrying so much.

From Anonymous
Has anyone heard the song "Like This" by Mims? I once had a friend that was too self-conscious to lose her virginity and I reassured her by a line of the song that says "I know what I like and baby that's below the waist". He does not specify labia size, shaved or not, anything...he just likes it and I think that goes for a lot of guys

From Anonymous (England)
Ladies, whatever the size/shape of your labia (or clitoris), please be reassured that the vast majority of us men (and quite a few other women) will find your girly, womanly, female feminine goodies very attractive.  If somebody doesn't love your puss, they obviously don't really love you and don't deserve you.

I've never met a pussy I didn't like, and Nelson, my cock, would say the same if he could speak.

From Anonymous
I'm a virgin and for as long as I can remember (since puberty) I've had large labia (1'1/2 inches) and I really don't want guys to think I've been used when they see my labia. It's hard enough to be self-conscious over them, let alone having to convince some guy that I haven't slept around.

[We're doing the best we can to educate blockheads who still think the size of women's labia is related to frequent sexual activity]

From Jim
In reference to Marie [see Marie's entry below]: I have one question. Does your idiot boyfriend have a porn perfect penis; is it a big, thick, handsome dick with staying power? What's good for the goose is good for the gander—if his dick is not picture perfect, then you should insult his 'manhood' and see how he likes it. Adrienne's right, get rid of the imbecile.

From Adrienne
Your problem, Marie, is not your large inner labia, it's your jack-ass of a boyfriend. [see Marie's entry below] You don't need labia surgery, you need to cut the jerk out of your life. Why in the world would you want to marry a man who makes you feel horrible? Honestly, Marie, that man is insulting, rude, verbally abusive, and surely he doesn't love you. Get rid of him, the sooner the better.

And those girlfirends of yours, how do they know so much about 'ugly pussies'? What are they, the labia inspectors, going around peering at women's vaginas—rating them pretty or ugly? Are you sure they're your friends? And about the term "cameltoe," that's a slang term that refers to the outline of a woman's labia majora (outer lips, not inner labia) and happens when pants are too tight. Cameltoe does not refer to size or shape of inner labia, and has everything to do with effect of tight clothing.

Listen, Marie, there's nothing wrong or ugly about large labia. if you honestly think labia surgery will make you happy, that's all fine and good. But to do it for a man who makes you feel horrible is all wrong. Do it for yourself if you must, but certainly don't do it for him or anyone else.

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