Female Ejaculation

Penis envy or truth?

Well, I've heard about female ejaculation. I've read about it. Hell, I've even written about female ejaculation. And now, thanks to video rentals, I've seen it. But I don't believe it.

It just looks like peeing to me. I also find it hard to believe that this phenomenon has suddenly been discovered after centuries of non-existence. So, is there anyone out there who has experienced female ejaculation (and why do they call it that, anyway? I think maybe half the reason I don't believe it is because it smacks so of penis envy) who is willing to have a go at convincing me that female ejaculation real?   —Dorothy

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From Anonymous
When dating my first long term boyfriend after doing the kinkiest things and playing out the porn we were watching I began riding him and started coming with liquid that came shooting out of me. He was like wow you are amazing I've only heard about girls like you. I don't squirt with everyone, but if you fuck me hard and do kinky things with me expect to get soaked.

From Betty
Me too, Stacy. [see Stacy's entry below] But don't be overly jealous, as I understand it, that are more women who don't experience female ejaculation than do. There's a good primer at the following URL, which says right off the bat: "Not everyone ejaculates, but if you want to try and learn how, follow these simple steps.." How To Female Ejaculate by Alicia Guinn. Also note that a great deal of the female ejaculation hype comes from sex toy shops, who sell a great deal of g-spot toys to women like you and me, who are willing to try everything. Need I say more!

From Stacy
I am SO jealous!  I have been trying and trying to experience this but it still eludes me.  I keep hoping practice makes perfect but I haven't found perfect yet!

From Samantha
Female ejaculation is real. My partner has always squirted since I first made love to her, not every time but probably half the time. Her husband has never made her squirt but he doesn't really know how to love a woman. And when she is on the verge of coming, I cover her with my mouth. I usually drink as much as I can. Wonderful!  Only another woman really knows how to make a woman glad to be a woman!

From JCR
I almost always 'shejaculate' when I'm flying solo, but until I met my current lover I never really let go to that extent with somebody else.  To all those who've shared their experience of how they make their lady do that, I would add: a few seconds of psychological ground-work is worth an hour of hard work and fancy technique.  You don't have to have a Deep & Meaningful over it, or even be that graphic - just inviting her to get as wet as she likes might well be enough of a hint that it's ok to drench the sheets (or the car seat, or your face, or whatever). 

In terms of 'penis envy', I think I can say fairly confidently that it's an affliction from which neither of us suffers.  That said, she does really enjoy getting a 'porn star blowjob' - me on my knees in front of her, using mainly suction rather than friction on her clit and lots of head movement to keep the rhythm and pressure interesting - and an old-fashioned facial cumshot rounds it off very nicely.  Neither of us are butch types, but I think there's an undeniable element of sexual role-reversal in a woman ejaculating (maybe, subconsciously, one of the reasons why many of us initially feel uncomfortable with it?) which has all kinds of fun potential.

From Stuart (Isle of Lewis)
Many women do think that this is pee but they must realise that it isn't and that such ejaculation comes as a result of massaging the urethral sponge tissue on the front wall of the vagina. This tissue swells in size when massaged vigorously and she will then squirt. The liquid does not come from the vagina or from the urethra...where urine is expelled. It actually come from the Skenes gland, which is attached to the prostate and for the sole purpose of releasing prostate fluid....as it does with a man's cum.

The liquid itself is clear and very watery and can occasionally show a milky colour. It does not contain sperm but has high levels or glucose and enzymes that are included in male semen. I also has it's own distinctive odour and can taste quite sweet. So to make a woman squirt intense g-spot stimulation using firm pressure is required and if the pressure is not firm enough she probably will not squirt.

A good way to get your partner to squirt is to completely relax her and get her nice and wet and horny before massaging her g-spot and prostate gland. It's good to stimulate her labia and clitoris prior to ejaculation but it could take a few attempts before you actually succeed .....so go for it and take your time and enjoy.

From Rachel
I just had the best orgasm of my life yesterday with my boyfriend of 8 years.  No, his dick wasn't inside me but his fingers were deep and thrusting upwards way deep in there.  Plus his tongue was licking my clit, not hard licking and not just grazing his tongue over me, It was in between. (I believe there is an inside and an outside G-spot). I was so into it, talking dirty and getting him to say dirty thoughts too.  I "squirted" so hard, my ass, my thighs, his thighs, the couch, and my pussy was so drenched.  Yes I have squirted before but never like this.  I personally know that females can squirt.

From fit2betied
I am no expert, but I spent many of my younger years learning about the female body and the magic they hold!  I have had several girls have squirting orgasms as we got busy, with the normal "I think I have to pee" excuse.  If you work past that you will be so surprised. It's the key that you're on the right track. 

As you have read everyones different and there are a lot of ways to activate the G Spot. Patience is the biggest key, being super horny or properly aroused is another helping factor.  I had been trying to show my wife that she too could have G Spot orgasms, but it eluded us for years. One day after weeks of being too busy to be together we both took the time to release some pent up energy and make love.  After going down on her and getting her warmed up and really wet, I brought out a small hand vibrator and began using it on her clit, and using my fingers inside her, soon she was building up to a huge orgasm, she made her peak and started shooting juices from her pussy and soaked the bed and my hand! This was so fantastic she just kept coming and squirting.

She was so thrilled and we have been trying to recreate that moment ever since.  It will work but you have to enjoy the journey as well.  Keep trying and you will find it!  I can't wait for it to become a normal part of our lovemaking as I love to enjoy her juicy wetness!

From Pam
I recently discovered that I'm a gusher. My lover and I were in 69 position with me on my back when I suddenly felt a wetness welling up in me. He said it looked like it was gushing up not squirting. I think having his cock in my mouth helps me relax and not focus on the feel of needing to pee. I just push down and go with it. We put down towels now but I'm going to invest in a plastic bed cover as well. He loves my gushing and pretty much makes me cum like that several times. I love it and I'm quite proud of my new talent.

From Brian
Accidentally experiencing the female ejaculation from stimulating the g spot, I have had the pleasure of being able to recreate this at will with other partners. Best is after foreplay etc, having female on all fours, entering her vagina from behind with thumb to massage the bundle of tissue that would be above her pubic bone on the front and inside her vagina whilst the web of my hand thrusts against her clitoris. Faster and faster this should be until the whole vagina convulses just prior to ejaculation of a clear inoffensive fluid which just gushes out, and this can be repeated time after time by slowing the "thumb fucking" and then increasing the rate again.

Hugely delightful for the male to then ejaculate to further increase the mess factor, and I'm talking soaking the mattress and carpet.

From True Shejaculater
A year ago I would have told you that female ejaculation was fake. I must express to you how real it is. I personally taught myself how to squirt after watching the porno Squirt Woman 2. In this porno, the ladies squirt multiple times and very far. They even fill up champagne glasses and drink it. It intrigue me. How were they doing this and was it real. From that point on, every time I masturbated, I tried different technique's and toys to try to acquire this talent. 

Finally I found a toy called The Flex and the first time I used it, I put it up inside me, on my g-spot, and had a orgasm, I felt wetness dribble down my vagina and ass. The bed underneath me was soaked. Personally, It was the most intense orgasm I'd ever experienced. Now it is a ritual. Our foreplay starts and ends with me getting off and him getting drenched.

If you're a woman who is seeking how to squirt, I must tell you, practice makes perfect. If you know where your g-spot is, find a toy that's curved and can rub it constantly, then just as you feel you're about to orgasm, take out the toy and push while your coming. You're guaranteed to shejaculate. 

To all the men who love to please a woman, I suggest first finding a woman's g-spot by putting your pointy finger and index finger inside her and motion her with those two fingers to "come here" the more you tell her "to come here " the more you're stimulating her g-spot. 

To all, the vagina must be clear from any penetration whatsoever in order for a woman to shejaculate. Her vagina muscles must be able to contract as much as possible in order for this wonderful nature to take place!

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