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From Claudia
When I started using a vibrator on my clit I orgasmed way more then with another person. I know what I want. My whole body started shaking, I was moaning uncontrollably, and I can feel pressure building before I come. Amazing. There is no better feeling then after orgasming.

From Darren
Orgasms are the most pleasurable and addicting things I've ever encountered. Everything about sex is amazing to me... The sensuality, the sights, sounds, smells, feelings. I wish I had a girlfriend right now! I've found that as a male, it is possible to have different "types of orgasms" like the women describe. One is from simply stimulating the penis, and the other is from massaging the prostate (the male g-spot). Here, I'll describe my orgasm from penis stimulation...

One of the best parts of having sex or masturbating is the initial "insertion." The moments during your first stroke down the shaft, or gliding into your lover's vagina. It's like you're home, completely enveloped in a hot, wet sleeve built just for you as you push into a woman's sex. To feel her welcome your member, and coat it with her sweet juices as you both gasp, savoring every inch, every sensation, until finally you're fully inside her. Then you just fuck each other's brains out!

Personally, I'm able to prevent my orgasm for as long as it takes for my partner to come first at least once, unless I'm so turned on I just can't control myself. In the seconds leading up to my eventual climax, I begin to feel pressure building behind my testicles, turning into intense pleasure as it moves up and into my cock. My skin tingles, and I excitedly continue, knowing that I'm about to have an orgasm. With each stroke, the feeling moves closer and closer to the tip, causing me to grip tightly to something close by and grit my teeth. I like to take deep breaths and stroke slowly, prolonging the sensation of my semen filling my cock, dying to explode.

Sometimes, I have the will to stop myself here and tease myself, moving closer to orgasm then backing off over and over. But most of the time, I give it one last good stroke and the pressure finally starts to release from deep within me. Every muscle tightens, I take one last big deep breath, and I bear down almost pushing the cum out of me. Sometimes I shout, grunt or groan if I'm alone, but i always tell my partner, "I'm coming! Fuck, I'm coming!" Everything goes blurry as I feel myself erupting powerfully.

When I masturbate, I like to feel my cum showering down onto me (if I'm on my back, that is). My cock twitches rhythmically, spurting more each time as I start frantically milking every drop out onto my stomach. Waves of sensation rock my body and make me spasm. The more attention I give to the glans (head) during climax, the more intense the sensations, and the harder the body spasms become. If I feel strong enough or turned on enough, I can fight through the sensations and maintain my erection for another round, but most of the time, its too powerful and I'm forced to stop. Drenched in my own ejaculate, I sigh in relief, like the weight of the world has just been lifted from my genitals, and I lie there panting.

Sometimes I rub the semen over my skin; it cools me down rather quickly. I'm not gay, but sometimes I'll taste myself in post-orgasmic delight; it feels so erotic. If I'm with a lover, I love to hold her after sex, because I feel close to her, especially if we share simultaneous orgasms... I miss sex now! :-(

From John
I read about a study several years ago that seemed to me extremely interesting.  A writing class at a university were unknowingly made subjects of this study.  They were asked to write a paragraph describing their sensations of orgasm, anonymously and revealing only whether the writer was male or female.

Researchers then edited out references to gender (e.g., "penis" or "clit" or "vagina" were replaced by general, neutral terms), and they had the handwritten descriptions typed, and the "M" or "F" encoded.  Later they handed the neutered, typed, coded descriptions back out to the students.  Each read several and tried to guess the sex of the writers.  When they broke the code, nobody had been able to tell reliably whether the writer was a man or a woman.  We feel the same things! 

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