Clit Notes

Playing It Her Way

Women, how do you like your clit played with and what is your clit like? How do you tell a lover during sex, without making him/her feel uncomfortable, that the technique being used isn't working and to try other things?

Some of my lovers jingle on my clit like it's a bell. It doesn't work for me. My clit is buried far in. It's not very big, but can become extremely sensitive. I have this theory that men often approach a clit as if it's a wee penis they're trying to jerk off.

My husband is very good at clit play. He doesn't treat mine as a bell, but rather surrounds it with two fingers, and allows me to move myself against them. I like a slow, steady rhythm. Then he puts another finger inside me and I place my little vibe on top of my clit. That works. It takes a lovely, languorous time, but it is worth it. And of course he often adds his tongue to the mix. Which is fab-u-lous.

I'm just curious about how others enjoy and approach clit play.   —Amanda

I never once heard the word clitoris. It would be years before I learned that females possessed the only organ in the human body with no function other than to feel pleasure.    —Eve Ensler, The Vagina Monologues

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From Ana
To you Michelle! [see Michelle's entry below] I have experienced that sensitivity too but when I was younger. The only way for me was to play with my bare clit head, but with oil on my fingers otherwise it was way too sensitive to touch. Successively I pulled at my clit hood and pulled it in as far as it gets. After times it became softer and slide easier over my clit head. And after that even my clit head became easier to touch and it was no problem to have an orgasm, (but with the skin hood under my fingers when I masturbate.) Just try to enjoy and relax! Good luck sis! :)  

From Michelle
I have a large labia and a fairly decent clit.. not really that big but defiantly gets bigger when aroused. I mostly have a hanging labia and I am a total virgin. Is this unattractive? I always thought it was but in the last few years I have found it sexy, although I have to stuff it back in between my lips sometimes because I hate how much is peaking out... embarrassing.

I get extremely sensitive when I masturbate and always have to stop so I have never had an orgasm. Is there any way I can get over this so that I can finally have an orgasm? Has  anyone else experienced this with a large clit or large labia? Maybe I just need to have sex already but I also lose my libido the second I feel that tickle start to happen so I just stop because it is too ticklish to go all the way.

From India
My all time favorite way to please my clit is for it to be kissed. And I don't mean a little peck or a little lick here and there. I mean a full on french kiss on my clit. I've had my clit pierced for close to 7 years now and I can say with out a doubt that's the best decision I have made in my adult life. My clit has always been really sensitive but with the piercing I can feel my orgasms all over my body, literally.

If my babe does it right which he usually does most of the time, if he stimulates my nipples and clit at the same time there will be a flood of juice flowing out of my pussy. Another fun thing to do is make your lady count how many times you are licking her using various speeds and pressure on her to keep her guessing and aroused. I've got as high as 147 before I exploded all over his tongue. Happy licking!

From Erica
My clit loves to get spanked and then chewed on. I love when it gets sucked and have your partner take his mouth and cover all that clit and inner lips moving his head up and down clit in mouth. And releasing cum after cum until that big O.... then licking it and sucking on it until you can't take it no more! Can I say Oh YEAH! I love to hear the munch sound when he chews on it! It turn me more on! YUM!!!

From Sy Ko
I carried a torch for the man I'm with now for 16 yrs before we got together. He absolutely is gifted at making me feel all woman He is rough on my clit, pulling & tugging. I had always thought he was biting me, but he was not. Now he does and I come, love it. All sir gifted has to do is suck on my nipple and I orgasm, the quivering feeling he still gives me after 7 yrs now, when we make love I orgasm too many times to count. Now that's privileged.

From Genevieve
My way so to speak can be a few different way to play with myself but one way wish I many times enjoy is when I lay on my stomach with a pillow under me. Spread legs and my right hand and fingers touching my clit. I make a little hole with my thumb and index. As my clit is a little oversize it sticks out and I kind of fucking my fingers. I have never until now told anyone of my habit but to be honest I will experience the feelings that I fuck someone. And I really love to do it this way. Excuse me if I sound freakish. Love ya  

From Angel
I've been having many amazing encounters with a sexy lady. And more and more its a challenge to find out what works with us both. I found if I take my time I find exactly what she likes.

Try nibbling on her clit with a little sucking action, don't bite too hard unless like me she likes a little pain and pleasure. It may not work for all. I'm just sharing what I like, and now I know she loves this. So happy days.

From Anonymous
My boyfriend always fingers me but for some reason I have better orgasms when he directly touches my clit and I'm always so wet so the wetness on my clit is amazing I do figure 8s on it or just circles and when I'm alone and horny I lay on my stomach and take my index and middle finger and rub against my clit and I do different speeds to prolong and make the orgasm 10 times better I try not to scream but if I do then I do and I'd ask if any of u women squirt but I do every time my man sucks on my clit

p.s. ky warming jelly is amazing...in fact I think I'm gonna go play with myself now

From Madeleine
My clit is slightly protruding, but not large. It is not completely covered by the skin and so it shows as a little pink 'knob' - my pleasure knob I call it. I love it dearly, love to play with it myself, I make one finger wet in my vagina and then gently rub it. I do like it when my husband licks it but he has to be very gentle about it, as my clit is very sensitive. Unfortunately, if he sucks or rubs too hard, all pleasure is gone for me.

Before I got married I had a lover. He had an enormous cock and because of that we mostly had oral sex. Now he was sensational in pleasuring my clit. He actually made me come several times, just by licking, sucking, even nibbling on my clit.

From Red853
I love to have my clit played with. Mostly bitten.  I just love when a man uses his teeth on me, same as with my tits.  I don't have much feeling in my nipples.

From DA
I want to say that I enjoy any way. I have a large clit that sticks out. I keep myself shaved cause I am proud of that clit and I also enjoy the feeling when I walk or have the clothes rub on it and If I am in a shower with other girls and they look at me I feel great because I feel that I must have something that they don't.

I love my lover to open my lips which they pretty much open and then take 2 fingers and pull twist rub it in a circle motion or up and down and put a finger inside my vagina and ass, it is so amazing and then he will put his tongue inside. I have several orgasms and I unload lots of cum.

I also have another way I love is when he sucks my breasts and plays with my clit and that is very relaxing till I have an orgasm. Then we finally make love as he puts his penis inside after he goes from the clit down, and what an orgasmic feeling -- several over and over and it feels like I am peeing. I love it.

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