Erotica Readers & Writers Association
Home | Erotic Books | Authors Resources | Inside The Erotic Mind | Erotica Gallery
Adult Movies | Sex Toys | Erotic Music | Email Discussion List | Links




Inside the Erotic Mind

Sexy Underwear & Nightclothes
Does it tickle your fancy?



On-Going Forums

CyberSex

Is Cybersex Cheating?
A complex issue

Real Cyber Experiences
Share your story


Fantasies

Blasphemous Fantasies
Why are they so titillating?

Could You, Would You?
3 fantasies to try on

Forced Fantasies
Right or wrong?

Men's Fantasies
Men dare to reveal

Women's Fantasies
Women dare to share

Your Fantasy 3some
MMF or FFM?


Masturbation

Masturbation Memories
First experiences

Taking Care of Business
On the sly...or so you think

Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?


Oral Pleasures

Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue

Oral Sex for Him
How to blow his mind

Spicy Sex!
Altoids, schnopps, chili?

Swallow or Spit
What's a person to do?

The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?


Orgasmic Pleasures

Cum Shots
Messy liquid darts

Describe Your Orgasm
How does it feel?

Faking It
Why the deception?

Loud & Proud Sex
Do your neighbours know?

Sexual Positions
Let us count the ways...

What is Your Preference
Oral sex or intercourse?

Your Best Orgasm?
Color us curious


Keeping Abreast..

Breast & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?

Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?


Relationship Woes

Happiness is…
Sleeping in separate rooms

Polyamorous Relationships
Could it work?

Men & Women Revealed
What you ought to know

Sex After Marriage
Who's doing it...or not?

Swing Clubs
What's going on?

Why Do People Cheat
Is one not enough?


Inquiring Minds

Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

What do Women Want?
Hint...it's not length

Men: During The Act
What do you think about?

What do Men Want?
Hint...it rhymes with 'tex'

Butt Plugs

Are They Up Your Alley?



Want to try a little cheeky fun?

Karups Private Collection is a verifiable behemoth with endless photos and videos of every sexy thing imaginable, from softcore solos to hardcore action: amateurs, models, guy-girl, girl-girl, 3 or moresome, toys, exotics, all doing what comes natural, and some not so natural. Excellent quality, enormous quantity, exclusive content and frequent updates is why Karups Private Collection is consistently rated one of the best adult sites. And, there's enough freebies to float your boat.

Smut Network is all about adult Video on Demand, with all the best adult movies in dozens of categories from major studios. This is one hell of fabulous deal with plenty of options including pay only for what you watch with the pay-per-minute system, download movies to rent, purchase, or burn-to-own DVD. At Smut Network you get the best in adult dvds, classy presentation, no membership fees, no rebilling, and 24/7 customer service.




From Paul R
I'm thinking of purchasing an inflatable butt plug, I currently use a med / lg plug that I enjoy using. Can anyone recommend a good inflatable plug, and give some feedback on your satisfaction on the product.

[From the editor: one suggestion with rave reviews is the Anal Balloon Pump (also known as the Deluxe Wonder Plug).]

From Gary
What will they come up with next? I never cease to be amazed at the selection of butt plugs when I visit my local adult toy store. I recently bought the Anal Pacifier (advanced) and, while not huge, it hits the prostate just right and I highly recommend it for anyone wanting to enjoy anal play. It will absolutely stay in place and you can wear it all day without fear of it coming out and embarrassing you.

From Chris
I have owned 2 butt plugs now for over a year. They do make my orgasms much more intense! I own one glass butt plug wich is very comfortable for wearing through out the day(or night) and a larger rubber one wich I can only wear for maybe a couple of hours at a time. The larger rubber bp is better to intensify an orgasm and since I am single it is great to wear when I masterbate!

People that have not tried butt plugs are really missing out! Start out small and work your way up to a larger one!

From Gilbert
I just wanted to comment briefly on an observation I made.  Why is it that so many guys (about 10 up to this point), feel it necessary to begin their submissions with something along the lines of "I am completely straight", "As a totally straight male", "mostly straight"?  I find it interesting that anything inserted into the male anus is still perceived by so many as a gay thing.

[Gilbert, you're not the only one to ponder such things. We have an entire forum that focuses on the perception that to penetrate someone is to feminize them: Anal Sex for Straight Men: A penetrating question]

From Gary
Always thought I had to use a large plug to get any anal satisfaction but, at a recent visit to my Hustler Store, I saw one (I think it's called the Twister) that caught my eye and I bought it. It's only about 5 inches long overall and hits my prostate just right. Also, it is tapered such that it stays in place. Sitting here with it inserted right now and squirming my ass against my leather recliner causes a super feeling inside my asshole.

From Babeland
Mr B [see entry below], there is a right way and a wrong way to go about anal sex. The wrong way involves ignoring pain and "pushing through" it to reach the goal of anal sex. Our butts are made of sensitive, fragile tissues, and pain is a signal from your body that something is going wrong. Anal sex should never, ever hurt. If it does, your body is telling you to relax, slow down, and be patient. Practice makes perfect. Anal play is a learning process. Education is crucial. Here's a few articles that will answer your questions and guide you into enjoyable and safe anal play.

From Mr. B
I read all the anal toys men use and can't help to wonder how this affects one with hemorrhoids, and what about fecal matter. How does one clean himself to ensure no fecal matter gets in the way? What about pain while inserting toys in the butt? I can not get over the thought of pain while inserting them. Please comment.

From Ms Michelle
I have enjoyed anal stimulation since I was a little kid at the doctor's office. When I got married, my wife completely understood and it occasionally becomes part of our sex play. I bought my first plug about three months ago and it's great! I bought the small one and was disappointed in how easily it comes out.

When we went to buy a medium my wife found a wireless remote controlled one! Now she'll put it in me before we go to the grocery store and "buzz" me several times here and there around the store. Her favorite is to "buzz" me when I'm at the deli counter or the checkout. It's hard to keep a straight face in front of a stranger when your back door suddenly gets vibrated. Thank goodness the motor is quiet enough to go undetected.

I have been searching EVERYWHERE for a wireless vibrating anal toy to use on my boyfriend. 

[Adam & Eve has an amazing variety of anal toys for men and woman.]

Page:   1  |  2  |  3  |  4 
___________________

Participation Link

Interested in this topic? Share your thoughts with us.


Video Box


  E-mail this page


Search ERWA Website:

Copyright © 1996 and on, Erotica Readers Association, Inc.
All Rights Reserved World Wide. Reproduction in whole or in part in any form or
medium without express written permission is prohibited.

Down There Fare

Ben Wa Balls
Bliss or fizzle...

Big Clits vs Small Clits
Size determines pleasure?

Clit Notes
Playing it her way

Designa Vagina
Lips to die for...

Female Ejaculation
Penis envy or truth?

Fisting
Stretching the truth

The G-Spot & The Clit
Combo of choice

Period Protocol
That time of the month

The Scent of a Woman
Is it hot, or not?


Talking Heads

Big Dicks vs Foreplay
Which do you prefer?

Cock Rings
Torture or pleasure?

Impotency
How do you handle it?

Men's Sex Toys
Got any?

The Scent of a Man
Is it hot, or not?


Delectable Derrières

Anal Sex
So what's the big deal?

Anal Sex for Straight Men
A penetrating question

Butt Plugs
Are they up your alley?

Luscious Backsides
Do they incite you?


Sexy Turn-Ons...or Offs

BDSM
Is pain your pleasure?

Do Passionate Kisses
Ignite your libido?

Naughty Pictures or Words
What turns you on?

Same-Sex Curiosity
Would you...did you?


Porny Problems

Porn & Relationships
Hot or not?

Porn for Women
Is there such a thing?

When Porn Isn't Sexy
What are they doing wrong?


Dress to Impress

Sexy in Eyelasses
Do they turn you on?

Speedos
Tanned or banned?


Body Talk

Bare with Me
Is nudity your thing?

Body Piercing
The hole thing

Bush or Bare
Your preference is...

Can Fat be Sexy?
The skinny on sex

Name Your Dingle
We won't laugh...


The Daily Grind

Age and Sex
Like fine wine or vinegar?

Horny at Work
What's a person to do...

Losing Your Virginity
Fiction versus reality

Meaningless Sex
Indulge or avoid?

Sympathy Fuck
Nasty or noble?

What About Strap-ons?
Everyone's doing it!