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From Mary
Contrary to all the entries here, I really truly dislike anal sex. Yes, I've tried it with various lovers, in various positions, used plenty of lube, and so on. But I find anal sex uncomfortable, not too bad with no movement once in, but thrusting, even gentle and slow, doesn't feel sexy, good, or hot. Just plain old uncomfortable. 

From Femme Fatale
I love anal sex! But it did take a while to get used to. The first time my boyfriend and I did it, it hurt so bad, but I didn't want to stop because I wanted so badly to enjoy it. We didn't do it for quite some time after, but then talk about it and we discussed it, I really wanted to keep trying, and he told me he did too, but he didn't try it again because he said it looked like I was in a lot of pain. I explained to him I was up for it, but we just really needed to be lubed up, I needed to be more relaxed. 

We tried it once more, it wasn't so bad, but he came in my ass, and the next day was hell. I had to keep running to the restroom all day at work! After that, I wasn't so sure about it anymore for a while. But after some more time passed I really wanted it again. this time, we used a condom, lots of lube, and had a drink or two beforehand. We went really slow, he used a condom, and took the condom off and finished in my pussy. Oh my gosh that was so much more enjoyable! I came and knowing that he enjoyed himself was so great! Now that we've found our routine, we both love it!

From She
I agree with Anonymous [see entry below] A finger is one thing, but a dick? No thank you. I know there are women who enjoy anal sex and of course that's all fine and good. But I wonder how many women feel obligated to enjoy anal sex because it's high profile in the porn industry.

The porn industry is making millions off anal sex because it was finally something new to bring to the screen, and as an added bonus, it's something that had a bit of a taboo attached to it. The sex toy industry enjoyed a huge jump in bucks as butt plugs suddenly became a hot item. So the sex industry is making a bundle on anal sex. Got to love that.

From Anonymous
I'm open-minded, so the one and only time anal sex was ever suggested by a lover, I was willing to attempt it, though I couldn't commit wholly to it. It was a "let's see how it goes" process. Needless to say, it didn't go very far. I don't even think he got past putting the head in before I felt like I was being torn apart. It was quite painful, so I asked him to stop. (For the record, I do think that I might be a little tighter anally than the average person). He obliged. We were just experimenting anyway. A finger is one thing, but a dick? No thank you. To each is own, but sex for me is about pleasure, not pain.

When it was first brought up as "something to try", I told him, "Sure, I'll let you fuck me in the ass if you let me fuck you in the ass first." He was very adamant that he was not interested in having his ass penetrated. So I asked him, "So why do you think I would be?" He told me that it just seemed more "natural" for women. ( I guess his line of thinking was that women are already used to being plugged.) My response, "More natural for women?! I already have a hole made for fucking!"

Nevertheless, I was still willing to try. Who knows? I might enjoy it, though I suspected that probably wouldn't be the case as indeed it wasn't.

From Bob
I noticed that when a chick is not in the mood for marathon sex she is apt to offer anal so the guy shoots his load faster. I am speaking from experience.

From Paul
I love anal sex and ass play.  I always have even before I got to do it.  The movies gave me good ideas over the years but my first couple girlfriends and first wife were not open to it.  They would allow some external contact, rubbing, tongue, mouth.  But not penetration.  But after 45 years I got married to my second wife (who was a young virgin) and she was all for it.  Maybe since she had no sexual experience and I talked to her about it beforehand (even showed her some images (non pornographic), she was open to anything.  She was very excited to have sex and had no hang ups. 

It took time though, I started with my finger and small toys and worked my way up.  It is painful if you push it or try to jam yourself in a woman.  It took about a year before I could get my penis inside (at first only the head).  I didn't do anything until she was comfortable with it and the pain level was minimum.  But eventually the anus stretches just like the vagina and the pain goes away.

Most women who rule it out usually have a negative experience.  When their boyfriend or spouse jams inside them and they hurt like hell.  But with proper care and lubrication, anal sex can be pleasurable.  I also enjoy using fingers, tongue, anal beads, vibrators, etc. My wife always cleans herself beforehand and I have never had a shitty experience.  I am surprised by all the people who say it's dirty and encounter shit.  That's just a lack of preparation. If you clean yourself beforehand, it won't happen.  Enemas can even be used if you have problems cleaning the inside.  Sometimes my wife will say, don't penetrate too deeply because she wasn't able to clean herself properly.  She knows when she has some matter in there and when it's not time to play. 

I like anal sex so much that I practice it almost every time we have sex.  I like oral for an hour, regular intercourse for 30 minutes, and anal for last.  And often I like to come in her mouth or on her face.  She really is a fantasy come true.

From John (pussylicker)
I'm curious about the following: I love eating pussy and ass as well as all parts of the female body.. and also love to insert my tongue in the pussy and ass as deep as I can. The question is what disease I could get from practicing this hobby? Do you recommend it or not?

[From the editor: No, no, no, we do not recommend analingus (licking the anus) during cunnilingus (licking pussy). You can do one or the other, but not both. Same goes for inserting the same finger or sex toy used inside the anus, then inside her vagina. A big no-no. Never put anything that has been in an ass directly into any other orifice without thoroughly cleaning it first. The anus is home to bacteria that can cause serious infections.  Also keep in mind that Hepatitis A is contagious through analingus, so know your partner, and practise safe sex. A good source of accurate reliable info is www.toss-my-salad.com]

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