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From Lynn
Yes, anal penetration from a hard penis is less painful than a plastic dildo in the initial penetration. [see Mikeyd's entry below] The soft skin feels better, but the main difference is the actually hardness: a penis is never as hard or inflexable as a plastic dildo. Get yourself a silicone plug or dildo, that will be similar to the real thing.

Anal sex should never be painful, even initially. A bit of stretch and fullness is good, and sexy as hell, but pain means something is wrong -- not enough lube or not enough foreplay so your anus is relaxed and ready. Be careful! Play safe.

From Mikeyd
This is more of a question than a previous experience. I have always loved sliding things into myself anally. Most of the time they were small like my fingers but now I long to have a hard penis inside me so I have been practicing with a plug and a dildo that are about the normal size of a penis. I have been able to take both to the max and enjoy them very much after they are inside me.

My question is this. Is penetration from a hard penis less painful in the initial penetration? My thought would be yes because of the soft skin verses the hard plastic of a dildo. I would really like to know what the comparison is so I know what to expect when the day come that I finally get to have the real thing. Hopefully very soon!

From Joan
I really really hate anal sex. It's uncomfortable at best, and often hurts. True there's a bundle of sensitive nerve endings right around the anus, and it does feel good to have the area caressed, and shallow penetration with a finger is good, sexy. But a whole damn penis jamming in and out - no no no! Feels lousy.

I can understand guys getting off on anal sex because of prostate stimulation (called P-Spot), but for women? Nay. Come on guys, hands, mouths and pussys are not enough, you gotta fuck ass also?

From C
During my pregnancy I kept having a recurring infection. I pleasured my husband through oral and breast sex, but he missed the "real" thing as well.  We tried anal and he was sold. He particularly liked it when we had a large vibrator in my vagina that gave him additional stimulation (nice for me too). After the baby was born, he never wanted to go back to vaginal sex.  He is quite large (girth and length) and says that he can go deeper with anal. 

From cl
All of you who ignore your partner's ass are really missing out.  Take the time to kiss, lick, and massage it and then stick one and then more fingers in, but always use baby oil or Vaseline before using anything bigger like your cock. 

Let the woman take control of how much she is ready to take in.  This could be a slow process at first, but all the while, it makes for the best sex.  Don't forget to masturbate her pussy once you enter her from behind.  By all means talk really dirty about what you are doing to her.  She will have an unbelievable orgasm and will love you forever!

From Sue
Geez, Bob, don't know what kind of anal sex your wife has, but for most us ladies cum leaks as a result of anal sex regardless of a simple tissue wipe. And panties doesn't stop the leak, they simply catch it before it rolls down the thighs. [see Bob's entry below]

It's the same thing as cum in the vagina; it simply leaks out. So it goes for anal sex. Unless he's using a condom, when a man ejaculates in whatever orifice, be it vagina, mouth or ass, he leaves a little juicy something behind. Where do you think it's going to go? Either it's swallowed, spit, or oozes out. Just more proof that sex is wet, sloppy, and fun. 

From Bob
Thanks to an experience while on holiday in August my fiftiesomething wife is now a devotee of anal intercourse. While I am not as large as the man who had her on holiday, it is the sensation of penis in anus that produces much of the excitement and pleasure for her. It is, she says, the narrowness of the anus and the contrasting largeness of the erect penis that causes the initial breathtaking pain and pleasure leading to ecstasy as the male's in-out thrusts speed up through to final climax. 

Cum leaking from her anus is not the problem one of your previous contributors identified - my wife or I will have tissues to hand or if with someone else she will put her panties back on. Hardly rocket science!

From Sue
What are you thinking! (I sure hope you're not getting your info from adult movies or internet porn) Good grief, Maya, most people do use condoms during anal sex. Especially people not in monogamous relationships. Think about AIDS, and STDs. [see Maya's entry below]. Another good reason to use condoms during anal sex is that they prevent the god awful 'leaking' afterward. Think sperm dripping out of your ass as you go about your day. Yuck.

People who don't use condoms either have no problems with the messiness of, or if they want to avoid any possible mess, they use an Anal Douche (also called an enema) before anal sex.

From Maya
Ok, this may seem as a stupid question but I really want to ask this. Most people do not use condoms during anal sex. So, what do you do to clean your anus so that a penis, once it is out of the hole, doesn't get all messy. What do you use for cleaning and how do you reach deep inside because I can clean as deep as my fingers length which is, of course, shorter than the penis.

From Anonymous
I've had anal sex three times and could never get used to it. I wasn't very fond of doing it that way in the first place but did it for my husband anyway. I thought it felt as if I was going to the bathroom in reverse. It was horrible all three times.

From Greg
Anonymous - yes, of course it is a health hazard!  Don't try it unless you want to get some pretty nasty illnesses.  Whether your partner is your wife, girl or guy friend, the ass is where the waste leaves the body and it's toxic!  Fingering and fisting are both great but be ever careful.  Fucking ass is much better and if you know your partner then go bare backed but if you don't always consider using a rubber.

From Anonymous
I'm curious as to the appeal of "ass to mouth" in porn films - 'to each his own' and all that, but, besides the "ick" factor, isn't it a health hazard?

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