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From Anonymous
I was married for 40 years and never had anal sex with her but had the desire but she was too straight laced. After she died I was with a professional domatrix and she penetrated me and I came almost as soon as she touched  my prostate. Now i have found a girlfriend who loves to fuck me in the ass. She has a orgasm just by fucking me and seeing me come. She says it gives her a sense of power that she never felt before in her life. I don't feel any less a man at all.

From Louis Vega
Anal sex started slowly with my wife.  As our comfort level grew with each other regarding sex we gradually introduced things.  I had never thought about anal sex, but one night it just happened. 

Normally I would rub her back and this would get her pussy wet.  I normally stop at her lower back as my wife never seemed interested in having anal sex.  This one night I was extremely turned on and she was more active than normal.  I decided to work my way to her voluptuous ass.  As I rubbed her ass she began to moan more.  She started to spread her legs. 

I grabbed her ass with both hands and spread her cheeks apart and began to kiss her softly.  Slowly I worked my way to her hole.  The first time my tongue touched it she moaned then lifted up her ass so I would have better access to it.  I proceeded to suck her ass for what seemed like an hour.  Her pussy was sopping wet and she was begging me to suck her ass while playing with her clit.  She climaxed hard that night.

From Sally
In response to Jack [see entry below], anal sex is not for me either. We tried it several times just to see what the hoopla is about, and frankly neither of us enjoyed it. My husband, he truly does enjoy a backside view, he's an ass man all the way. But like Jack, he has absolutely no fascination with butt-holes and all I can say is thank goodness. 

From Jack
Nope, anal sex is not for me. Maybe I'm "anally" retentive, but I'm just not attracted to the opening of the anus, not one bit! I love a girl's ass, I love to take a woman from behind, doggie-style or standing up, but I have absolutely no fascination for the butt-hole, or putting my fingers there, licking it, or anything, and I don't want anybody fiddling in the area of my butt hole either! 

I'm quite surprised about how many people are into anal sex. I'm curious to know about what the percentages are. Looking at this forum you'd think it was about 90% of people practicing anal sex, but I guess the non-anal sex lovers just stay quiet.

From Sue
I find anal sex enjoyable as an occasional thing. I hate, absolutely hate ramming hard fucking type anal sex. Ramming a dick or a dildo up the ass is a really hurts, it's dangerous (delicate tissue up there, folks, be careful), and hardly sexy. Be nice to your butt, treat it with sensual delight and it will reward you with years of good service.

From Debbie
The other night my husband was giving me some anal play with his finger. I was so hot and turned on by this that I decided to maybe try a cock up my ass. I just wasn't sure how to do it. He had his cock in my pussy and it felt nice. I decided to get on top and so he laid on his back. I took his cock and just used it to rub all over my pussy. I then moved it to my anus and felt the tip of his cock pressing against my anus. It was too tight and wasn't sliding in, but it sure felt nice.

I reached for the lube and put some on his cock, then moved back into position. I put his cock back at my anus and started to pump against it. I could feel the head of his cock starting to slide in and I couldn't believe how turned on I was just feeling a small part of his cock penetrating my ass. It was a tight and hurt just a small amount if I pushed too hard against his cock. After some slow pumping the pain lessened and I could feel more of his cock sliding in my ass. Before long I had taken about half of it in and loved how it felt.

He told me it felt so nice on his cock and that he was going to come. I continued with some movement and felt him release his cum in my ass. I then had my own orgasm with all this new stimulation. I don't think this will be a normal event for us, but I'm sure wanting to try it again sometime and see if I can get more of his cock up my ass.

From Debbie
One night my husband was giving me oral sex and I was really turned on with his technique that night. His fingers had been in my pussy and he pulled them out and then used his tongue. He moved one finger to my anus and it felt so nice. He lightly pushed and applied pressure. I wanted him to go inside me it felt so nice, but it was not sliding in very easy. I suggested some lube and he took the hint and got some lube on his finger. He then returned and slowly inserted his finger in my ass. It was a totally different feeling and it felt nice. After a little bit of anal play, I just needed to have his cock in me to finish me. As I think about anal play, I have no desire for it. But when I get turned on and he gets down there, I sometimes desire it.

A few weeks later, we did a joint anal finger session which was very hot. One of these times I think I would like to feel his cock at my ass and see how it feels to be penetrated with a big cock in my ass. Just haven't come across the right time yet.

From Dave
I've never had anal sex, giving or receiving, but I've fantasized and written about it. I would like to try it sometime, just so I can get a better idea of the sensations involved. Unfortunately at the present time, my wife is not very interested in sex of any kind and I have no desire to cheat on her. I've thought about getting myself a dildo to play with, but somehow it just doesn't excite me. I think it would be interesting to be taken that way and I believe it enhances the relationship.

From Mikey
Anal sex is the best, once you go back door you just want more and more, I find after fantastic love making and making your girl so so happy she wants to please you and what better way than to offer up your ass as a way of pleasing your man, she gives me unfettered access to her ass, she says she loves it every time and is also into the little bit of pain but something more than just tight and hot its psychological as well. I agree. we both feel naughty and slightly wrong and kinky and it's a bit of an extra erotic twist.

No worries with anal sex, no contraception, and my cock is always still hard and I want seconds, it's amazing. It's like the anus muscles squeeze it out of me and leave you wanting more. Squirting hot cum into her arsehole is the best feeling, I love it.

Ass lovers . A band "The butthole surfers" been done I love them for that name. I am one. Butts and asses. Devils hole. Sodomy. Such nice evocative terms. To sodomize sounds good to me. See it's all kinky and messed up, that's what make sit so alluring.

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